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I'm probably terrible at texting girls so I'll post 3 sample text convos that maybe you can help me out with.

Girl 1, C:

The second girl from this topic:

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S: Hey C, fantastic meeting you last night, add me to your contacts
-S
Next day
S: Hey C, happy birthday! How are you feeling today?
C: Thank you. I feel good a lil hungover =) lol
C: Send me a pic of you =) I don't remember you..lol
S: haha well since you don't remember me, you should be the one to send me a pic first, then i will!
*No reply for 30 min...but I think I can correct it*
S: while you're getting ready to send that pic, here's a hint to help you remember me: you couldnt stop trying to get frisky with me last night! haha
C: Send me a pic ;)
S: lol, idk what have you done to earn it? all you've done is forgotten who i am!
C: i've earned it because im sort of cute and itss my bday lol ;)
S: its my bday too! another thing youve forgotten! not helping your case!
S: you should send me a pic to remind me how youre sort of cute =)
C: img! im old now i've already lost my memory =)
S: yeah ill forgive you if you send me a pic! =)
C: Ha! you dont remember me either!
S: Oh, that sounds like a challenge....you're white, blonde, pretty, 5-7, turning 26 and are a baker! i think ive earned my pic now =)
C: lmao how long did we talk for?!
S: felt like forever, especially since i had to keep fighting your hands off of me!
C: =(( youre not supposed to say it seemed like forever...smh!
S: a somewhat enjoyable forever haha. any plans for todaY?
C: just hanging out having a few drinks with friends. U?
C: *sends me pic from last night*
S: sounds like fun! dinner with family for me. we should meet up later for a nightcap
C: that might be nice. ummm wheres my pic?!
S: wouldnt you rather wait until we meet up later? it will be more exciting that way!
C: No! lmao
S: Mmm, maybe do you really think youve earned a pic?
C: of course i deserve a pic, dont be so shy, i sent you one =)
S: Hmm, idk you just sent me a pic from last night when i remember you! maybe you should send me a pic of you in something i haven't seen you wear!
C: haha that wasnt supposed to be sent to you, ;) oopsie
C: wait that was suppose to be sent to you lol ;)
C: just send me a dang pic geez
S: haha teasing you is too much fun=)
C: smdh!
S: idk i'll think about it
*sends pic*
S: does that jog any memories?
C: lol nope ;|
S: you are terrible! any idea how much you had last night? i seriously had to feed you water haha
C: idk probably 10-15 drinks way too much ;|
S: and how many are you up to today?
C: lmao hmmm soundss like something i might say...
C: But I'm really a sweet girl ;)
S: I bet you are! so how about that nightcap later tonight?
*No reply for 3 hours*
S: Well I had a great dinner =) hows your birthday going?

No reply yet. So as predicted she didn't remember me but rather than give in I challenged and flirted with her to try to get her to meet up tonight. I only used so many smilies because she seemed to like them. Eventually I felt like I had to give in and send her a pic. Now she doesn't seem like she's up for a nightcap....

A couple of other, shorter ones:

Girl 2, A:

S: Hey A, great meeting you tonight, add me to your contacts
-S
Next day
S: Hi A, happy st pattys day! It was funny I ran into your sister last night and she totally lost you, i hope you found her!
A: Happy green day to you as well. Great meeting you last night
Next day
S: Hello A, i hope you had a great weekend. I'd like to talk to you more, we should grab a drink/coffee somewhere a bit quieter. Do you have any free time?
A: I'm super busy with exams this week and in LA this weekend but i would like to get coffee with you. next week?
S: Thats cool, next week should be good, well have to work out the details later in the week
A: Ok sounds good to me!
4 days later
S: Hey A, are you free at night on tues or thurs next week?
2 days later
A: Hey there sorry i didnt get back to you sooner. I've been out of town. hows your weekend?
S: My wknd has been fun, how about yourself? have you had a chance to check your schedule yet?

No reply yet

Girl 3, B:

S: Hey B, it was great meeting you last night, add me to your contacts
-S
Next day
S: Hi B, sorry I didn't get a chance to say bye last night, hope you had a blast. Don't forget to add [a book] to your to read list!
2 days later
S: B, i hope your week is going great! we should get together and chat somewhere quieter. do you have any free time to get a coffee?
Next day
B: Sure what works for you?
S: Are you free at night tues or thurs of next week?
B: I'm a nurse at night remember? ;)
S: Haha well what works for you?
3 days later
S: B! I hope you had a fun and relaxing weekend. have you had a chance to check your schedule yet?

No reply yet

Yeah, I'm terrible at texting...I can't even schedule anything effectively with these 2 girls when they both wanted to go out with me.
 
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Re: Trying to arrange birthday sex and 2 other texting issue

i feel like the first convo was to long, not short or concise enough. The whole pic thing, yeah i get it, every dude gets a rise out of getting a pic from a girl.

I wouldn't directly ask her "how about that night cap later tonight" but thats my honest opinion

2nd convo

I wouldn't ask for her permission to talk to her more. "we should grab a drink etc" i would probably phrase it differently

"I'm out of town" to be honest how the hell does a girl not know she's not going out of town ? i would of left it at that instead of asking for her schedule. She's obviously out of town for the weekend it seems

3rd convo

You keep asking when she's free, with no response, pretty much beating a dead horse

I would come at her like have this wonderful idea ! or theres this new trend going on, its called grabbing drinks and hanging out"

Something that will jump start her attention, a joke, a funny question, recollecting something from that night you met her, once she says oh yeah what ? say something personal that could be for both of you, next pull the trigger.

Cleanest close takes 3 texts i would think, something to catch her attention, something personal to bring her closer, and the close with a date.

I'm still a newbie so don't take my entire word lol !
 
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