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I believe in building my arsenal from the ground up.
After coming full circle with my knowledge on game I decided to revisit arguably the most important factors in seducing women.
My foundation.
My fundamentals.
As we all know, without your fundamentals in tact it is impossible to consistently get through the seduction process.
If your voice is trembly, even the most REVERED material will be brushed off as if you were the biggest loser on earth.
If your eye contact is weak or incongruous to what you’re saying, women will peg you as being too big for your britches.
If you have submissive posture, but are saying things that may be perceived as dominant, she’ll test you harder in situations where she may not have needed to test you at all.
The way you carry yourself makes all the difference in the AMOUNT of game you need to sleep with each girl.
It’s the biggest proof she has to go off of.
These are the first things she sees and it affects her snap judgement on who you are as a person before you even open your mouth.
Let’s go over one of THE most effective fundamentals in my opinion. Eye contact.
I’m not sure why eye contact is so powerful. It does a lot for a seduction and it doesn’t even require you to do much.
For whatever reason something so small, can be so intimidating, yet sexual, intimate, yet polarizing, connection building, yet unnerving, subtle, yet obvious.
I’m going to list eye contact nuances that I use on the daily and their purposes for those who want to further improve their eye contact.
Ideally this would be for those who already carry a favorable vibe with them and are comfortable looking girls in the eye, speaking to them, etc.
I’m going to assume you guy’s already know the basics from the articles on this site such as lowered lids, looking from eye corners, not breaking first, triangle gazing, never looking down, etc.
First things first. When you approach a girl whos fixed somewhere, don’t look at her eyes first, especially if she is actively doing something.
I like to approach and face my body toward her so that she realizes my presence. At this point my eyes are either looking at her hands or i’m looking at her from my peripherals.
Once she looks at my eyes, I slowly turn my head and give her eye contact from the side of my eyes and say “oh hey” or “hey” in a low sexual tone.
This is partly from Chase’s article on eye contact flirting (where he emphasizes letting her look first), and Gunwitch’s smma material (where he mentions assumed approach invites).
This sets the dynamic of her being invested in the interaction. It also easily invokes sexual feelings if she feels anything sexually for you at all fundamentals wise.
At this point you hold the eye contact until she breaks while you continue the interaction how you normally would.
This is an easy way to spike attraction.
In general you always want a girl looking at your eyes first versus you looking first, I produce this even when it is me initiating the interaction by getting her attention first and then looking, not the other way around.
Next
Checking a girl out. If you catch a girl stealing glances at you and you want to set a easy sexual frame before you approach her. Check her out and let her notice then approach.
Do this by letting her eyes meet yours when she looks, she’ll usually break pretty quickly, then slowlllyyyy look her up and down then up again, in which she’ll reinitiate and notice you checking her out.
At this point you can shrug your eyebrows and drift your eyecontact away to the side at something in the vicinity and smile to yourself.
Best time for this is when you’re both fixed somewhere and can’t be arsed to approach. It works really well with girls who are high interest. She often repositions herself so that she can be easily accessible and she’ll almost expect your approach at some point.
Next
Utilizing silent eye contact. This is by far the most powerful because it puts direct emphasis on the eye contact in her mind.
This is when you’ve already been talking and the conversation comes to a standstill, either forced or natural.
I like to just look a girl in her eyes and penetrate her soul. She’ll blush, get erratic, start fiddling with things, look away, and everything else under the sun.
It is by far the most fun tactic because it generates the most visible responses.
When I do this girls will often spill whats on their mind in order to relieve the tension. The overwhelming pressure doesn’t allow her to fabricate a response or some other bland conversation.
She may try to get you to break the tension by saying things like “what? “ or “what is it?” in which i’ll only respond with facial subtle facial expressions.
This forces her to say exactly whatever it is she’s thinking. This is usually compliments, something she thought of me, how “I better stop looking at her like that”, among other things that ultimately pushes the interaction forward sexually.
If for some reason she doesn’t spill the beans and says something I don’t feel like is all that meaningful. I’ll look upward breaking eye contact, pause for a couple seconds, and change the subject.
This one is for guys who are comfortable with tension and building tension. Don’t do this if you’ll start acting nervous or fidgety yourself. Don’t do this if your eye contact is not already sexual. Don’t do this if you accompany eye contact with aggressive or uncomfortable facial expressions.
You should be relaxed, nonchalant, playfully flirty, and inquisitive in your demeanor.
Until next time.
After coming full circle with my knowledge on game I decided to revisit arguably the most important factors in seducing women.
My foundation.
My fundamentals.
As we all know, without your fundamentals in tact it is impossible to consistently get through the seduction process.
If your voice is trembly, even the most REVERED material will be brushed off as if you were the biggest loser on earth.
If your eye contact is weak or incongruous to what you’re saying, women will peg you as being too big for your britches.
If you have submissive posture, but are saying things that may be perceived as dominant, she’ll test you harder in situations where she may not have needed to test you at all.
The way you carry yourself makes all the difference in the AMOUNT of game you need to sleep with each girl.
It’s the biggest proof she has to go off of.
These are the first things she sees and it affects her snap judgement on who you are as a person before you even open your mouth.
Let’s go over one of THE most effective fundamentals in my opinion. Eye contact.
I’m not sure why eye contact is so powerful. It does a lot for a seduction and it doesn’t even require you to do much.
For whatever reason something so small, can be so intimidating, yet sexual, intimate, yet polarizing, connection building, yet unnerving, subtle, yet obvious.
I’m going to list eye contact nuances that I use on the daily and their purposes for those who want to further improve their eye contact.
Ideally this would be for those who already carry a favorable vibe with them and are comfortable looking girls in the eye, speaking to them, etc.
I’m going to assume you guy’s already know the basics from the articles on this site such as lowered lids, looking from eye corners, not breaking first, triangle gazing, never looking down, etc.
First things first. When you approach a girl whos fixed somewhere, don’t look at her eyes first, especially if she is actively doing something.
I like to approach and face my body toward her so that she realizes my presence. At this point my eyes are either looking at her hands or i’m looking at her from my peripherals.
Once she looks at my eyes, I slowly turn my head and give her eye contact from the side of my eyes and say “oh hey” or “hey” in a low sexual tone.
This is partly from Chase’s article on eye contact flirting (where he emphasizes letting her look first), and Gunwitch’s smma material (where he mentions assumed approach invites).
This sets the dynamic of her being invested in the interaction. It also easily invokes sexual feelings if she feels anything sexually for you at all fundamentals wise.
At this point you hold the eye contact until she breaks while you continue the interaction how you normally would.
This is an easy way to spike attraction.
In general you always want a girl looking at your eyes first versus you looking first, I produce this even when it is me initiating the interaction by getting her attention first and then looking, not the other way around.
Next
Checking a girl out. If you catch a girl stealing glances at you and you want to set a easy sexual frame before you approach her. Check her out and let her notice then approach.
Do this by letting her eyes meet yours when she looks, she’ll usually break pretty quickly, then slowlllyyyy look her up and down then up again, in which she’ll reinitiate and notice you checking her out.
At this point you can shrug your eyebrows and drift your eyecontact away to the side at something in the vicinity and smile to yourself.
Best time for this is when you’re both fixed somewhere and can’t be arsed to approach. It works really well with girls who are high interest. She often repositions herself so that she can be easily accessible and she’ll almost expect your approach at some point.
Next
Utilizing silent eye contact. This is by far the most powerful because it puts direct emphasis on the eye contact in her mind.
This is when you’ve already been talking and the conversation comes to a standstill, either forced or natural.
I like to just look a girl in her eyes and penetrate her soul. She’ll blush, get erratic, start fiddling with things, look away, and everything else under the sun.
It is by far the most fun tactic because it generates the most visible responses.
When I do this girls will often spill whats on their mind in order to relieve the tension. The overwhelming pressure doesn’t allow her to fabricate a response or some other bland conversation.
She may try to get you to break the tension by saying things like “what? “ or “what is it?” in which i’ll only respond with facial subtle facial expressions.
This forces her to say exactly whatever it is she’s thinking. This is usually compliments, something she thought of me, how “I better stop looking at her like that”, among other things that ultimately pushes the interaction forward sexually.
If for some reason she doesn’t spill the beans and says something I don’t feel like is all that meaningful. I’ll look upward breaking eye contact, pause for a couple seconds, and change the subject.
This one is for guys who are comfortable with tension and building tension. Don’t do this if you’ll start acting nervous or fidgety yourself. Don’t do this if your eye contact is not already sexual. Don’t do this if you accompany eye contact with aggressive or uncomfortable facial expressions.
You should be relaxed, nonchalant, playfully flirty, and inquisitive in your demeanor.
Until next time.
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