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Hey guys,
This "theory" is something I developed from reading GC and from my own experiences. I use it when I'm deep diving girls. It helps me frame that I am only interested in casual relationships and that society's norms on relationships belong in another century (a fuck-the-society frame). I don't have a large sample of observations but I believe that the theory has helped me reach a few hook points. I would love your comments on the theory to help me improve it, so here it goes.
While talking to a girl you get on the topic of relationships. You mention that you don't believe in relationships and she asks why. You tell her you have this theory that explains your thoughts on relationships.She naturally asks you to explain it to her:
1. So lets say that somehow we fell madly in love together, we have great sex for many weeks and decided to become a couple - How long do you think it would take for us to get sick of each other given that we believe right now in this moment that we are soulmates?
She would think about and try to give an answer. They all say the same things though, it depends on the guy, I don't know, blablabla. I let her finish making her argument. Then I would continue with my theory
2. A time limit for two people that are deeply in love would usually be two years (this is from one of Chase's articles). Before two years those feelings would start to fade away. So ultimately when the given time limit approaches there are three options:
She might interfere here and try to guess the alternatives herself. You then already know she is hooked and investing to the conversation
- Break up. This is what ultimately happens for young people
- Delay the problem with adding new stimulation to the relationship (learning a new language together, travelling, building a business together, etc)
- The last option is to have kids. Having kids is like falling in love all over again with tiny people involved and you feel a whole other new connection.
So this is why I believe having relationships at a young age always is a lost case (because it's not gonna last and you don't want a fuckin kid when you're in your early twenties or even younger) This is also why I believe you should have kids if you love someone for a long time and when you actually are ready.
3. So now after kids, obviously you get married right? Well, how long is that new born love going to last? My parents got divorced when I was 7. Almost half of all marriages in the whole western world end up in divorce. Now here's the million dollar question - Would you agree to have kids with a man you love, but not become married, since you know that one day you probably will not love that man anymore?
I've gotten various answers from this question. The girls that are open to idea and like it I would view as more open minded and sexually liberated, though I don't have any substantial prove to this assumption. After this I would conclude my theory
4. In todays world, society's views on relationships are flawed. In todays world, you have an abundance of opportunities when it comes to finding love. In todays world we have reached a point where to love someone "until death do us apart" is not very realistic. Don't you think?
I would then try to move over to a lighter topic since this is kind of heavy, and then escalate/get more compliance from the girls that respond well
Let me know what you think of the tactic.
TVKTVK
This "theory" is something I developed from reading GC and from my own experiences. I use it when I'm deep diving girls. It helps me frame that I am only interested in casual relationships and that society's norms on relationships belong in another century (a fuck-the-society frame). I don't have a large sample of observations but I believe that the theory has helped me reach a few hook points. I would love your comments on the theory to help me improve it, so here it goes.
While talking to a girl you get on the topic of relationships. You mention that you don't believe in relationships and she asks why. You tell her you have this theory that explains your thoughts on relationships.She naturally asks you to explain it to her:
1. So lets say that somehow we fell madly in love together, we have great sex for many weeks and decided to become a couple - How long do you think it would take for us to get sick of each other given that we believe right now in this moment that we are soulmates?
She would think about and try to give an answer. They all say the same things though, it depends on the guy, I don't know, blablabla. I let her finish making her argument. Then I would continue with my theory
2. A time limit for two people that are deeply in love would usually be two years (this is from one of Chase's articles). Before two years those feelings would start to fade away. So ultimately when the given time limit approaches there are three options:
She might interfere here and try to guess the alternatives herself. You then already know she is hooked and investing to the conversation
- Break up. This is what ultimately happens for young people
- Delay the problem with adding new stimulation to the relationship (learning a new language together, travelling, building a business together, etc)
- The last option is to have kids. Having kids is like falling in love all over again with tiny people involved and you feel a whole other new connection.
So this is why I believe having relationships at a young age always is a lost case (because it's not gonna last and you don't want a fuckin kid when you're in your early twenties or even younger) This is also why I believe you should have kids if you love someone for a long time and when you actually are ready.
3. So now after kids, obviously you get married right? Well, how long is that new born love going to last? My parents got divorced when I was 7. Almost half of all marriages in the whole western world end up in divorce. Now here's the million dollar question - Would you agree to have kids with a man you love, but not become married, since you know that one day you probably will not love that man anymore?
I've gotten various answers from this question. The girls that are open to idea and like it I would view as more open minded and sexually liberated, though I don't have any substantial prove to this assumption. After this I would conclude my theory
4. In todays world, society's views on relationships are flawed. In todays world, you have an abundance of opportunities when it comes to finding love. In todays world we have reached a point where to love someone "until death do us apart" is not very realistic. Don't you think?
I would then try to move over to a lighter topic since this is kind of heavy, and then escalate/get more compliance from the girls that respond well
Let me know what you think of the tactic.
TVKTVK
