Hello everyone,
this is my first post on GC and I am pretty new to game, so probably this is the best place to get started. Also I just recently came to the US, so please forgive my grammar errors!
I had two very similar experiences with different girls in the last two weeks, and I would love to know where I messed up.
GIRL 1
I met her one month ago at a party. After approaching I flirted with her, moved her, danced with her and then after some deep dive I asked her to get out of the party. She initially said yes, but then when we went back to our table to grab our things and leave, she decided to stay with her friend instead. I left and tried to get a date in the next days, but failed because she was busy. At that point I thought she was not into me, despite the good start, and completely forgot about her for two weeks. Then I texted her again and managed to get a dinner date near my place. After dinner we went to my house, and soon after being in my bedroom we started making out. Everything seemed to go smoothly until I tried to pull her jeans, at which point she stopped me saying 'no, it's complicated'. After persisting and failing, I asked her what was wrong, and she told me she had a boyfriend back home (she was coming in the States from Europe for six months). I tried to do my best at deep diving and persisting, and I think she was very horny because we kept making out a lot, but still wouldn't let me go any further. At some point she told me that she had her period, but even after reassuring her that was not a problem to me I couldn't bed her. So I just got tired and accompanied her home. In the next days she wouldn't accept to see me again, saying "I don't think you can be a friend to me, and that's all I want, so please understand".
GIRL 2
This happened two days ago. I met her on Tinder and got a date. After the date we went to my place and exactly as with GIRL 1 started making out and escalating. But she stopped me at a certain point saying "I can't do this, I already have two boyfriends and can't manage a third one". I tried my best to be unfazed (which I have to confess was pretty hard, because this was the first time this happened to me) and to persist, but again managed to go nowhere. I texted her today and she agrees to meet me again, but I really have no idea of what is going on and what should I expect.
I read a post of Chase about the last 5%, but while it seems to address a problem similar to the one I had, I couldn't get out of it a strategy on what to do in this cases. My questions are why did these girls change their minds, and what to do?
Thank you for your help!
hnk
this is my first post on GC and I am pretty new to game, so probably this is the best place to get started. Also I just recently came to the US, so please forgive my grammar errors!
I had two very similar experiences with different girls in the last two weeks, and I would love to know where I messed up.
GIRL 1
I met her one month ago at a party. After approaching I flirted with her, moved her, danced with her and then after some deep dive I asked her to get out of the party. She initially said yes, but then when we went back to our table to grab our things and leave, she decided to stay with her friend instead. I left and tried to get a date in the next days, but failed because she was busy. At that point I thought she was not into me, despite the good start, and completely forgot about her for two weeks. Then I texted her again and managed to get a dinner date near my place. After dinner we went to my house, and soon after being in my bedroom we started making out. Everything seemed to go smoothly until I tried to pull her jeans, at which point she stopped me saying 'no, it's complicated'. After persisting and failing, I asked her what was wrong, and she told me she had a boyfriend back home (she was coming in the States from Europe for six months). I tried to do my best at deep diving and persisting, and I think she was very horny because we kept making out a lot, but still wouldn't let me go any further. At some point she told me that she had her period, but even after reassuring her that was not a problem to me I couldn't bed her. So I just got tired and accompanied her home. In the next days she wouldn't accept to see me again, saying "I don't think you can be a friend to me, and that's all I want, so please understand".
GIRL 2
This happened two days ago. I met her on Tinder and got a date. After the date we went to my place and exactly as with GIRL 1 started making out and escalating. But she stopped me at a certain point saying "I can't do this, I already have two boyfriends and can't manage a third one". I tried my best to be unfazed (which I have to confess was pretty hard, because this was the first time this happened to me) and to persist, but again managed to go nowhere. I texted her today and she agrees to meet me again, but I really have no idea of what is going on and what should I expect.
I read a post of Chase about the last 5%, but while it seems to address a problem similar to the one I had, I couldn't get out of it a strategy on what to do in this cases. My questions are why did these girls change their minds, and what to do?
Thank you for your help!
hnk
