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I was walking through the street in this new latin American city when I spotted a girl coming at me from about 30 meters away. She was hot and there weren’t many people around so I jus knew that I had to say something. I stopped her in Spanish and we talked briefly. I simply said hi, told her she was pretty, and that I’d just arrived here. She was on her way to some sort of Spin class and was in a bit of a hurry but we just talked for a bit about her city and how she’d just started a new job and was very busy. She was hot and friendly and spoke perfect English, which can be better but sometimes worse but I appreciated it in the moment, and we made plans to grab a drink the next day. I asked for her number but she preferred Instagram and that was fine with me.
We messaged a bit and agreed to meet up in the spot that we met and to head out from there. She’d proposed over message that we go to a bar that was having an event for people from different countries where you can meet new people and learn new languages. Gringo Tuesday type of thing. And so when we met up we greeted each other and I got us an Uber to head out.
In the uber we were talking just about life, it was almost feeling more friend to friend. She was very confident and was immediately saying how I don’t have to feel obligated to talk to her and can feel free to talk to other people there. I kind of took that as her saying that she wasn’t very into me and wanted to mingle herself and for me not to have expectations with her. It was kind of odd but we had good and energetic conversation in the car ride and there seemed to be some sexual tension with eye contact towards the end of it.
We got in and I paid for us to enter. We sat down at a table nearby that was empty, even though it was for people learning to speak Russian and neither of us spoke Russian. I got us drinks and we were talking and then others came to our table and we were all having a nice time talking in English and Spanish. It was mainly local, Spanish speaking people there but they were all friendly and we were talking and having a good time as a group. It was clear that Bella, the girl I met and came with, and I were together. People were asking how we met and she said how I’d come up to her on the street and that seemed to generate me some attraction with the girls at our table.
So we all kept socializing. Bella was definitely talking with the group but seemed to make it clear that she wasn’t going to invest too much Tim for attention into other guys. I took that as either a sign of interest in me or respect but it was all kind of tough to read because she wasn’t giving me much affection to work with. This first floor of the place that we were on was light. The lights were fully on and it was designed for mingling. Apparently, and she’d told me this before, it turns into quite a party on the second level which people migrate to later in the night. People seemed to be moving up there and she said we should go up because her friend was DJing. Oh fuck, I thought to myself. Her friend is the DJ… Her “friend.” So we went up to hang with the guy and see the upstairs and it was sick. It was basically a club. And the dude was not a sexual threat, maybe gay, and he was cool, and it gave us a bit of a status boost being scene up there with him. Not that people were looking at us as they were all preoccupied at the bar which had a massive crowd. I asked her if she wanted a drink and she said no so I just went to check it out.
I went to he bar alone and started talking with and mingling with guys and girls alike. Everyone was extremely friendly. I made friends with a local guy. I came back to talk to Bella and check in with her and she came to the bar and I got her a drink and we were chilling and talking to people. The dance floor was filling up and so her and the guy I made friends with went to the dance floor and all kind of started to dance to this techno style music in a bit of a circle. It was honestly odd, like, this girl was closed off seemingly to affection with me and wasn’t expressing much interest in me but was still making it a point of not engaging any of the guys attempting to get her attention. Still, she wasn’t giving me much to work with and it was kind of turning me off. We danced and I’d leave and come back and there would be more mingling around. She didn’t seem that interested in talking to me and more in dancing.
At one point, I was down there with our group, with a full beer in my hand, and she asked me to get a drink with her. I said sure, not expecting to buy it for her as I already had a full one which she could see. The guy at the bar asked me to pay but I just told him to ask her to pay. That was when things changed. Like this girl was trying to be all miss independent, not show much interest in me, but things seemed to change once I didn’t buy her the drink. She talked to me but when we got back down there she seemed to pay me even less attention, and at this point it just seemed more like we’d gone there as friends. So I said fuck it.
I started spitting game, talking to tons of chicks, doing my thing. At one point I saw a group of four girls to my left and while they weren’t looking at me I had my eye on one who was very little and very pretty with what seemed like the potential for a nice ass in what she was wearing. She was tiny and looked young. Regardless, I went up to her with a big smile in Spanish and started talking to her and she returned it with big smiles and talk. Angela was her name. After about a minute I excitedly pulled her to get a drink with me at the bar. She didn’t want one but waited with me while I grabbed one and didn’t seem interested in going back to her friends. It was getting pretty loud and drunk and messy up there and her and I were getting closer and closer and ended up making out passionately for a long time and talking and having fun. I think we were together up there for probably 15 minutes and I tried to pull her but she said she had to go home with her friends and had work in the morning. I understood it, kind of, but obviously persisted and we still went back down to dance with her friends. We grinded on the dance floor for a while and I persisted for the pull more and more but realized it probably wasn’t going to happen. She was sweet but just adamant she was going to stay with her friends.
I drifted away from her, making tentative plans to hang out the next day which I figured weren’t goin got happen, and began talking to other girls. The night moved along, getting darker and messier and crazier, full of more makeouts but no pulls. I was kind of in a college mode. There were some extremely attractive girls there too which I really wanted to take a shot at but they were clearly paired with guys who I believe they cam with so I didn’t.
I was feeling discouraged and frustrated and it was thinning and getting darker. I had fun in the night but was feeling down. At one point, I found a target by the bar. She was engaged in conversation with three other girls but I didn’t care. I walked up to her, stepping through her friends at a point where she didn’t seem particularly engaged in the conversation, and began talking to her. I don’t even know what we talked about, and she didn’t seem 100% into me or 100% hoked, but we were talking and she was close to me and after about 5 minutes of talking I proposed we check out another area around here. She actually agreed but said she had to say goodbye to her friend. We went downstairs and her friend was a guy who had actually been talking with Bella for like an hour. She said bye to him and I said bye to Bella, who seemed to chill and friendly with me but I put it together that she’d been bothered I didn’t pay for her drink, and this new girl, Andrea, and I walked outside.
It was cold now and the night was dark and there was not shit going on. I asked her if she had any favorite bars around here or anything because I didn’t know the city. She said, and I quote (in English) “Ummm, I really do not like to be the leader.”
Lol.
I proposed we go back to my place - it was like five minutes away - to listen to some music and drink some more, we’d been talking about music previously and she’s a part-time professional salsa dancer, and she just went along with it, agreeing without protest.
I immediately took the yes for a yes and told her I’d call her an Uber but she said not to because she’d actually driven. I was pretty drunk and wasn’t sure if she was too but I wasn’t going to protest. So we walked a couple minutes, arm in arm, to wherever she parked her car, and she drove us in her old, falling apart Sedan to my place, seemingly making sure to hit every pothole on the way there.
We found parking, arriving in one place, went inside, and began making out right away. As we were escalating and taking off each other’s clothes we were talking about deep stuff and smiling and getting along really well. Apparently she hadn’t been with someone since she’d gone through a tough reakupw with her ex boyfriend four months ago and just really wanted to have sex and I’d been in the right place at the right time. Perfecto.
We went to my bed and had sex and this girl rode my dick like I’ve never seen. Feet flat on the bed, hands behind her, massive tits and ass though not perfectly thin but not fat either, just going to absolute town. Sweating a little too much, summing. I wasn’t going to protest.
It was honestly great and a happy end to her night. Waking up 3 hours later to find her car in the cold because she had to go to work wasn’t as wonderful but, hey, the price you have to pay.
Day 2
I went back to bed and was able to sleep quite a while. When I woke up I texted Angela. Two hours later she hadn’t replied and I figured that was dead and I was honestly bummed because I wanted to keep the momentum going and really wanted to fuck her hot little Latina self.
She replied eventually, basic, and we texted and she actually agreed to meet with me later at the last minute. She hadn’t been sure before but I told her it was my only chance. I told her I’d order her Uber from her place and that seemed to make a difference. (It was like $5.50.)
We met in a park by my place. It was awkward because I thought she was going to be alone but she was with her friend, but when I saw the two of them I saw her friend first and told her that I remembered her from last night. It didn’t register to me that she was with the girl I was with and until I turned and saw her and kind of put it all together. Awkward. Fine. Whatever. She was friendly and my girl was sweet and friendly but a little shy, though not in a way that worried me.
We walked a bit and waited for her friend to get an Uber. Then her and I got drinks at a bar. We sat on barstools at the side of the bar and talked and it wasn’t wonderfully fluid. We talked about how she was studying to be a nurse and working in the hospital as part of her studies and just overall really busy. Her confidence was coming in and she seemed to be testing me with the way she was looking at me, very confidently and directly, seeming to see what I was made of. I was feeling kind of timid but handled it fine, and the conversation began to heat up when I made some sort of joke about her having a boyfriend. It turns out, according to her, she did. She was shy about answering the question and I pressed her on it, saying I didn’t care. She was in an open relationship with a guy who now lived in Germany. They’d been together now for about four years. She was shy about it and wasn’t sure how I was going to react, it seemed. She asked me if that bothered me and I, unfased, simply said no, smiling but not too aggressively. We talked about how if you’re not certain you’re ready to get married it makes senes to retain your freedom and how people should b able to do what they want to do and not be controlled. I can really work that topic of conversation pretty well, some good bullshit, and we started to touch with our legs and get closer and dirtier and actually moved into a kiss at the bar.
As we were finishing our drinks she asked me if I lived nearby, which she knew, and I said that we should go back to my place and listen to some music. That a go-to of mine, seed the idea of sharing music we live with the other that they don’t know, and she even said herself we should go back to my place and do that. I paid and we walked, arm and arm, back. When we got back to my place I began to escalate on her immediately and she asked me about the music. Instead of pushing through I simply smiled and said oh, you’re right, and I put on one of my favorite bands I was telling her about. We then escalated further, moving from the couch to the bed, and had great sex without resistance. I really threw her around. She was 25 and hot and a lot of fun but she looked like she could’ve been 19.
We had great talks afterwards, openly about life and her relationship and everything, and ended up hanging out a couple days later. She was very sweet and cuddly and when I’m back in her city I’ll see her.
Keys the lay(s):
Keep taking shots and don’t give up
Don’t doubt how quickly you can make things happen - “move fast” a staple of this site
Take the lead. Lead the sale. Be the director of the flow of events, with that flow being a process of meeting to sleeping together. Lead so that they don’t even have to think and can go with that flow. Don’t interrupt your own flow.
When a girl brings up the ideas of non-monogamy, don’t overreact in either direction, simply showing that you’re happy and cool with it, approving of her sexual liberation. And move forwards.
OH. And what happened with Bella?
I messaged her the next day on Instagram thanking her for a fun evening. When we said goodbye it'd been friendly, simply us both seeming to agree we'd gone different paths in the night and that was fun.
We got back together a few days later with a friend of mine from out of town who happened to be another FWB but that's a whole other story. We all got together and partied with her friends. her and I talked privately and she had said that she was into me that night but we'd had a miscommunication and she found it rude I hadn't paid for her drink and had embarrassed her by telling the bartender to charge her. I still hadn't completely gotten it but whatever. Everything was cool, we'd agreed to be friends, and I was recently back in her city two weeks later and actually fucked her friend who we'd gone out to a group dinner with and she wing manned me sure hard with. So, yeah. it went well. A total of 3 lays thus far from meeting her and her inviting me to that event and then introducing me to her other friend weeks later. Lol.
We messaged a bit and agreed to meet up in the spot that we met and to head out from there. She’d proposed over message that we go to a bar that was having an event for people from different countries where you can meet new people and learn new languages. Gringo Tuesday type of thing. And so when we met up we greeted each other and I got us an Uber to head out.
In the uber we were talking just about life, it was almost feeling more friend to friend. She was very confident and was immediately saying how I don’t have to feel obligated to talk to her and can feel free to talk to other people there. I kind of took that as her saying that she wasn’t very into me and wanted to mingle herself and for me not to have expectations with her. It was kind of odd but we had good and energetic conversation in the car ride and there seemed to be some sexual tension with eye contact towards the end of it.
We got in and I paid for us to enter. We sat down at a table nearby that was empty, even though it was for people learning to speak Russian and neither of us spoke Russian. I got us drinks and we were talking and then others came to our table and we were all having a nice time talking in English and Spanish. It was mainly local, Spanish speaking people there but they were all friendly and we were talking and having a good time as a group. It was clear that Bella, the girl I met and came with, and I were together. People were asking how we met and she said how I’d come up to her on the street and that seemed to generate me some attraction with the girls at our table.
So we all kept socializing. Bella was definitely talking with the group but seemed to make it clear that she wasn’t going to invest too much Tim for attention into other guys. I took that as either a sign of interest in me or respect but it was all kind of tough to read because she wasn’t giving me much affection to work with. This first floor of the place that we were on was light. The lights were fully on and it was designed for mingling. Apparently, and she’d told me this before, it turns into quite a party on the second level which people migrate to later in the night. People seemed to be moving up there and she said we should go up because her friend was DJing. Oh fuck, I thought to myself. Her friend is the DJ… Her “friend.” So we went up to hang with the guy and see the upstairs and it was sick. It was basically a club. And the dude was not a sexual threat, maybe gay, and he was cool, and it gave us a bit of a status boost being scene up there with him. Not that people were looking at us as they were all preoccupied at the bar which had a massive crowd. I asked her if she wanted a drink and she said no so I just went to check it out.
I went to he bar alone and started talking with and mingling with guys and girls alike. Everyone was extremely friendly. I made friends with a local guy. I came back to talk to Bella and check in with her and she came to the bar and I got her a drink and we were chilling and talking to people. The dance floor was filling up and so her and the guy I made friends with went to the dance floor and all kind of started to dance to this techno style music in a bit of a circle. It was honestly odd, like, this girl was closed off seemingly to affection with me and wasn’t expressing much interest in me but was still making it a point of not engaging any of the guys attempting to get her attention. Still, she wasn’t giving me much to work with and it was kind of turning me off. We danced and I’d leave and come back and there would be more mingling around. She didn’t seem that interested in talking to me and more in dancing.
At one point, I was down there with our group, with a full beer in my hand, and she asked me to get a drink with her. I said sure, not expecting to buy it for her as I already had a full one which she could see. The guy at the bar asked me to pay but I just told him to ask her to pay. That was when things changed. Like this girl was trying to be all miss independent, not show much interest in me, but things seemed to change once I didn’t buy her the drink. She talked to me but when we got back down there she seemed to pay me even less attention, and at this point it just seemed more like we’d gone there as friends. So I said fuck it.
I started spitting game, talking to tons of chicks, doing my thing. At one point I saw a group of four girls to my left and while they weren’t looking at me I had my eye on one who was very little and very pretty with what seemed like the potential for a nice ass in what she was wearing. She was tiny and looked young. Regardless, I went up to her with a big smile in Spanish and started talking to her and she returned it with big smiles and talk. Angela was her name. After about a minute I excitedly pulled her to get a drink with me at the bar. She didn’t want one but waited with me while I grabbed one and didn’t seem interested in going back to her friends. It was getting pretty loud and drunk and messy up there and her and I were getting closer and closer and ended up making out passionately for a long time and talking and having fun. I think we were together up there for probably 15 minutes and I tried to pull her but she said she had to go home with her friends and had work in the morning. I understood it, kind of, but obviously persisted and we still went back down to dance with her friends. We grinded on the dance floor for a while and I persisted for the pull more and more but realized it probably wasn’t going to happen. She was sweet but just adamant she was going to stay with her friends.
I drifted away from her, making tentative plans to hang out the next day which I figured weren’t goin got happen, and began talking to other girls. The night moved along, getting darker and messier and crazier, full of more makeouts but no pulls. I was kind of in a college mode. There were some extremely attractive girls there too which I really wanted to take a shot at but they were clearly paired with guys who I believe they cam with so I didn’t.
I was feeling discouraged and frustrated and it was thinning and getting darker. I had fun in the night but was feeling down. At one point, I found a target by the bar. She was engaged in conversation with three other girls but I didn’t care. I walked up to her, stepping through her friends at a point where she didn’t seem particularly engaged in the conversation, and began talking to her. I don’t even know what we talked about, and she didn’t seem 100% into me or 100% hoked, but we were talking and she was close to me and after about 5 minutes of talking I proposed we check out another area around here. She actually agreed but said she had to say goodbye to her friend. We went downstairs and her friend was a guy who had actually been talking with Bella for like an hour. She said bye to him and I said bye to Bella, who seemed to chill and friendly with me but I put it together that she’d been bothered I didn’t pay for her drink, and this new girl, Andrea, and I walked outside.
It was cold now and the night was dark and there was not shit going on. I asked her if she had any favorite bars around here or anything because I didn’t know the city. She said, and I quote (in English) “Ummm, I really do not like to be the leader.”
Lol.
I proposed we go back to my place - it was like five minutes away - to listen to some music and drink some more, we’d been talking about music previously and she’s a part-time professional salsa dancer, and she just went along with it, agreeing without protest.
I immediately took the yes for a yes and told her I’d call her an Uber but she said not to because she’d actually driven. I was pretty drunk and wasn’t sure if she was too but I wasn’t going to protest. So we walked a couple minutes, arm in arm, to wherever she parked her car, and she drove us in her old, falling apart Sedan to my place, seemingly making sure to hit every pothole on the way there.
We found parking, arriving in one place, went inside, and began making out right away. As we were escalating and taking off each other’s clothes we were talking about deep stuff and smiling and getting along really well. Apparently she hadn’t been with someone since she’d gone through a tough reakupw with her ex boyfriend four months ago and just really wanted to have sex and I’d been in the right place at the right time. Perfecto.
We went to my bed and had sex and this girl rode my dick like I’ve never seen. Feet flat on the bed, hands behind her, massive tits and ass though not perfectly thin but not fat either, just going to absolute town. Sweating a little too much, summing. I wasn’t going to protest.
It was honestly great and a happy end to her night. Waking up 3 hours later to find her car in the cold because she had to go to work wasn’t as wonderful but, hey, the price you have to pay.
Day 2
I went back to bed and was able to sleep quite a while. When I woke up I texted Angela. Two hours later she hadn’t replied and I figured that was dead and I was honestly bummed because I wanted to keep the momentum going and really wanted to fuck her hot little Latina self.
She replied eventually, basic, and we texted and she actually agreed to meet with me later at the last minute. She hadn’t been sure before but I told her it was my only chance. I told her I’d order her Uber from her place and that seemed to make a difference. (It was like $5.50.)
We met in a park by my place. It was awkward because I thought she was going to be alone but she was with her friend, but when I saw the two of them I saw her friend first and told her that I remembered her from last night. It didn’t register to me that she was with the girl I was with and until I turned and saw her and kind of put it all together. Awkward. Fine. Whatever. She was friendly and my girl was sweet and friendly but a little shy, though not in a way that worried me.
We walked a bit and waited for her friend to get an Uber. Then her and I got drinks at a bar. We sat on barstools at the side of the bar and talked and it wasn’t wonderfully fluid. We talked about how she was studying to be a nurse and working in the hospital as part of her studies and just overall really busy. Her confidence was coming in and she seemed to be testing me with the way she was looking at me, very confidently and directly, seeming to see what I was made of. I was feeling kind of timid but handled it fine, and the conversation began to heat up when I made some sort of joke about her having a boyfriend. It turns out, according to her, she did. She was shy about answering the question and I pressed her on it, saying I didn’t care. She was in an open relationship with a guy who now lived in Germany. They’d been together now for about four years. She was shy about it and wasn’t sure how I was going to react, it seemed. She asked me if that bothered me and I, unfased, simply said no, smiling but not too aggressively. We talked about how if you’re not certain you’re ready to get married it makes senes to retain your freedom and how people should b able to do what they want to do and not be controlled. I can really work that topic of conversation pretty well, some good bullshit, and we started to touch with our legs and get closer and dirtier and actually moved into a kiss at the bar.
As we were finishing our drinks she asked me if I lived nearby, which she knew, and I said that we should go back to my place and listen to some music. That a go-to of mine, seed the idea of sharing music we live with the other that they don’t know, and she even said herself we should go back to my place and do that. I paid and we walked, arm and arm, back. When we got back to my place I began to escalate on her immediately and she asked me about the music. Instead of pushing through I simply smiled and said oh, you’re right, and I put on one of my favorite bands I was telling her about. We then escalated further, moving from the couch to the bed, and had great sex without resistance. I really threw her around. She was 25 and hot and a lot of fun but she looked like she could’ve been 19.
We had great talks afterwards, openly about life and her relationship and everything, and ended up hanging out a couple days later. She was very sweet and cuddly and when I’m back in her city I’ll see her.
Keys the lay(s):
Keep taking shots and don’t give up
Don’t doubt how quickly you can make things happen - “move fast” a staple of this site
Take the lead. Lead the sale. Be the director of the flow of events, with that flow being a process of meeting to sleeping together. Lead so that they don’t even have to think and can go with that flow. Don’t interrupt your own flow.
When a girl brings up the ideas of non-monogamy, don’t overreact in either direction, simply showing that you’re happy and cool with it, approving of her sexual liberation. And move forwards.
OH. And what happened with Bella?
I messaged her the next day on Instagram thanking her for a fun evening. When we said goodbye it'd been friendly, simply us both seeming to agree we'd gone different paths in the night and that was fun.
We got back together a few days later with a friend of mine from out of town who happened to be another FWB but that's a whole other story. We all got together and partied with her friends. her and I talked privately and she had said that she was into me that night but we'd had a miscommunication and she found it rude I hadn't paid for her drink and had embarrassed her by telling the bartender to charge her. I still hadn't completely gotten it but whatever. Everything was cool, we'd agreed to be friends, and I was recently back in her city two weeks later and actually fucked her friend who we'd gone out to a group dinner with and she wing manned me sure hard with. So, yeah. it went well. A total of 3 lays thus far from meeting her and her inviting me to that event and then introducing me to her other friend weeks later. Lol.
