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Two level of rejection (Inner Game)

zero

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Recently I applied Chase's advice "Don't eject too soon". Basically I just stayed in the set until they kicked me out (strangely, it always was done by a girl friend, the guy friends never did it). I notice that I always looking desperated at the end, thus it was humiliating.
I literally ran out of the bar at 1 am last night. So I thought if you applied this advice, probably you would give up soon.

So I think of this concept. Rejection level 1 is when you approach the girl / set and she just turns away. After a few hundred approaches, you immune to it, and Rejection level 1 won't hurt you.
Rejection level 2 is when the girl kick you out, and you invested a fair deal of time. You'll again need a few hundread approaches to immune to it.
 

Poli

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Zero,

Simple but Solid Advice. Thanks!

Poli,
 
you miss 100% of the shots you don't take
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