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This is an intermediate and above post based on mine and @topcat's conversations that I think a lot of guys will learn, help refine and improve from.
You'll notice that there is a "type" of girl where things are super easy with and effortless as she matches your style and style of game. Whereas other girls (who can be just as attractive) are not necessarily "harder" but less natural to your style. Maybe you've slept with that kind of girl but it's not really your thing/comfort zone.
For example I do best with sweet, stable, slightly looks orientated girls who have a curiosity and excitement for life. Whereas getting dumb party girls is like pulling teeth.
My aim for this post is to:
1) Help guys get laid more through
- a) getting the girls they like a lot more efficiently
- b) convert more dates to lays by understanding the different types of girls and what they respond well to
Now obviously girls are girls. They'll always be attracted to certain things I.E: Confidence, Deep Diving, Similarity, Playfulness/teasing, chase frames Sexiness etc.
However the ratio's of what you dial up / down and the topics of what you'll discuss vary.
2) At the end we will have a thorough guide that gives guys the tools to get "any type" of girl
So the way this guide will work is that I'll outline the girl type. How to spot them, how to game them and lastly their pros and cons.
This is not a perfect guide just a start. Please also note that archetypes aren't set in stone and a lot of girls will have elements of different types. You'll also notice that these archetypes will be relevant to yourself too
The different types of girl archetypes
1. Cozy Home Body
Description
These are probably the majority of girls out there and is your typical "girl next door". Not necessarily looks wise but in terms of living an "ordinary life". They'll work regular jobs, like to go out to meals with the girls and have the occasional holiday.
How to spot them
She'll be pretty but not too flashy. Think tinted moisturizer with a bit of mascara vs fake tan and fake eye lashes. Kind of girls who love a bath bomb and pineapple and papaya face scrubs.
How to game them
These girls are really into connection, family, comfort and emotion. You can probably get a way with nice guy game as long as you're good looking enough and sprinkle in a touch of push/pull to keep it interesting.
Pros and cons
Pros: make sweet girlfriends. Types to buy you gifts, cook for you, low drama and are just nice.
Cons: for some guys these girls are super boring and not exciting enough. Also need more care as they can feel hurt more easily
2. Active Sporty
Description
These are your type-A extraverted "go-getter" girls. They may work in like recruitment, finance or even their own biz while working out 4x a week or playing a sport on the side. These girls go fucking crazy if they stay inside and often have to be doing something. They are also more likely to be regular party types too.
How to spot them
Generally more "flashy" but not always. Generally these girls manifest themselves in 2 ways
a) city metropolitan types - think sex in the city lifestyle and some of them lean jersey shore/love island with fake tan, sun beds, long nails etc.
b) nature types - e.g. like to go on hikes, do cross-fit, often seen in yoga pants. These girls are more "natural" than the above but have similar wiring
How to game them
I'm terrible with these girls so I'll let others chime in lol. From my limited success though they need more push/pull, jokes, physical touch and a feeling of being "swept in the moment". Status game probably resonates with them more too especially for type a's.
Pros and cons
Pros: Type a is what the MSM pushes the most so she'll look good on your arm at work events and social gatherings. They're also socially savvy and image conscious more-so then probably any of the other girls here. If you're an active guy yourself they'll also "get it" and less likely to complain about not seeing you often.
Cons: For the more intellectual or artistic types - these girls won't have enough "depth" for you and will be too "normal".
3. Intellectual
Description
These girls actually come in all shapes and sizes vs the stereotypical "librarian". Intellectual pursuit is super important to them so often have PHD's, Masters etc.
How to spot them
In higher education, volunteers at a research firm and/or museum, gets excited when you talk about intellectual topics and ideas.
How to game them
Talk about ideas, concepts, What if's and validate her based on her intelligence. It's a key part of her. Just remember to have a healthy dose of fun too as it's easy to get too "logical" with these girls .
Pros and cons
Pros: For the very logical guys out there, she's mentally able to stimulate you (which is important for some guys... I have a friend like this)
Cons: If you just like partying and getting pussy... This isn't the girl for you lol. You'll find her boring and she'll find you shallow.
4. Artsy
Description
Ahh artsy girls. A new found favorite. Tend to dress well but in a slightly non-conforming way. Think pretty dress with stark doc martens, occasional wild colours in hair. One girl I dated had fucking butterfly hair clips... At 26!!! But I digress I found it endearing at the time.
How to spot them
Again like active girls, these types manifest themselves in 2 ways
a) Novelty Seekers - the types to go to Tekno raves with crazy music and decorations or even sex parties
b) Beauty Seekers - think the type to like galleries, beautiful beaches, exhibits etc.
They'll often talk about art or their experiences quite early on as they take pride in "being different"
How to game them
Really get into the feelings behind their 5 senses. What's the thrill that rushes through them when they try something new? What's the feeling of peace and tranquility when they see a calming exhibit? Why do they like certain pieces vs X and what does it say about them?
Pros and cons
Pros: Tend to be open minded types which makes them good in bed as well as low maintenance and more likely to agree to non-status quo relationship modelsl
Cons: May be too "wishy washy" for some guys
Other Considerations - Your "Clique"
I'd personally say archetype is the biggest determiner of how "easy" things will be with a girl but this is a close second.
By "clique" I mean what sub-sect of society are you in?
E.g. are you a hipster, Jersey shore type, Love Island type, goth, hip-hop head, K-Pop Lover, Investment Banker, Festival Lover, Underground Rave lover?
I often use music to split up cliques as it's often a key thing that brings people together but it can also be how you decide to dress, the places you go to, what you consider fun, how they speak etc.
Often if a girl is in my "clique" simply by how they talk or the things they reference I can determine what music they like and what boys they go for.
Girls who are both your ideal archetype AND clique are the most enjoyable. You'll like them and you'll notice they'll also be super into you too.
With that said I've met girls in my "Clique" who haven't fitted me AT ALL because they're a contrasting archetype. If I do pull it off it ends up being very short-lived.
At the same time there are girls who've been my archetype but not my "Clique" so it starts of great but there isn't enough common ground to sustain the same excitement at the start for a long time... That may be a DWW problem though as I capture a wide net and haven't "niched" that much yet.
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Curious to hear all your thoughts and additions - DWW x
P.S In case you're wondering I'm a cosy home body with hints of intellectual and artsy
You'll notice that there is a "type" of girl where things are super easy with and effortless as she matches your style and style of game. Whereas other girls (who can be just as attractive) are not necessarily "harder" but less natural to your style. Maybe you've slept with that kind of girl but it's not really your thing/comfort zone.
For example I do best with sweet, stable, slightly looks orientated girls who have a curiosity and excitement for life. Whereas getting dumb party girls is like pulling teeth.
My aim for this post is to:
1) Help guys get laid more through
- a) getting the girls they like a lot more efficiently
- b) convert more dates to lays by understanding the different types of girls and what they respond well to
Now obviously girls are girls. They'll always be attracted to certain things I.E: Confidence, Deep Diving, Similarity, Playfulness/teasing, chase frames Sexiness etc.
However the ratio's of what you dial up / down and the topics of what you'll discuss vary.
2) At the end we will have a thorough guide that gives guys the tools to get "any type" of girl
So the way this guide will work is that I'll outline the girl type. How to spot them, how to game them and lastly their pros and cons.
This is not a perfect guide just a start. Please also note that archetypes aren't set in stone and a lot of girls will have elements of different types. You'll also notice that these archetypes will be relevant to yourself too
The different types of girl archetypes
1. Cozy Home Body
Description
These are probably the majority of girls out there and is your typical "girl next door". Not necessarily looks wise but in terms of living an "ordinary life". They'll work regular jobs, like to go out to meals with the girls and have the occasional holiday.
How to spot them
She'll be pretty but not too flashy. Think tinted moisturizer with a bit of mascara vs fake tan and fake eye lashes. Kind of girls who love a bath bomb and pineapple and papaya face scrubs.
How to game them
These girls are really into connection, family, comfort and emotion. You can probably get a way with nice guy game as long as you're good looking enough and sprinkle in a touch of push/pull to keep it interesting.
Pros and cons
Pros: make sweet girlfriends. Types to buy you gifts, cook for you, low drama and are just nice.
Cons: for some guys these girls are super boring and not exciting enough. Also need more care as they can feel hurt more easily
2. Active Sporty
Description
These are your type-A extraverted "go-getter" girls. They may work in like recruitment, finance or even their own biz while working out 4x a week or playing a sport on the side. These girls go fucking crazy if they stay inside and often have to be doing something. They are also more likely to be regular party types too.
How to spot them
Generally more "flashy" but not always. Generally these girls manifest themselves in 2 ways
a) city metropolitan types - think sex in the city lifestyle and some of them lean jersey shore/love island with fake tan, sun beds, long nails etc.
b) nature types - e.g. like to go on hikes, do cross-fit, often seen in yoga pants. These girls are more "natural" than the above but have similar wiring
How to game them
I'm terrible with these girls so I'll let others chime in lol. From my limited success though they need more push/pull, jokes, physical touch and a feeling of being "swept in the moment". Status game probably resonates with them more too especially for type a's.
Pros and cons
Pros: Type a is what the MSM pushes the most so she'll look good on your arm at work events and social gatherings. They're also socially savvy and image conscious more-so then probably any of the other girls here. If you're an active guy yourself they'll also "get it" and less likely to complain about not seeing you often.
Cons: For the more intellectual or artistic types - these girls won't have enough "depth" for you and will be too "normal".
3. Intellectual
Description
These girls actually come in all shapes and sizes vs the stereotypical "librarian". Intellectual pursuit is super important to them so often have PHD's, Masters etc.
How to spot them
In higher education, volunteers at a research firm and/or museum, gets excited when you talk about intellectual topics and ideas.
How to game them
Talk about ideas, concepts, What if's and validate her based on her intelligence. It's a key part of her. Just remember to have a healthy dose of fun too as it's easy to get too "logical" with these girls .
Pros and cons
Pros: For the very logical guys out there, she's mentally able to stimulate you (which is important for some guys... I have a friend like this)
Cons: If you just like partying and getting pussy... This isn't the girl for you lol. You'll find her boring and she'll find you shallow.
4. Artsy
Description
Ahh artsy girls. A new found favorite. Tend to dress well but in a slightly non-conforming way. Think pretty dress with stark doc martens, occasional wild colours in hair. One girl I dated had fucking butterfly hair clips... At 26!!! But I digress I found it endearing at the time.
How to spot them
Again like active girls, these types manifest themselves in 2 ways
a) Novelty Seekers - the types to go to Tekno raves with crazy music and decorations or even sex parties
b) Beauty Seekers - think the type to like galleries, beautiful beaches, exhibits etc.
They'll often talk about art or their experiences quite early on as they take pride in "being different"
How to game them
Really get into the feelings behind their 5 senses. What's the thrill that rushes through them when they try something new? What's the feeling of peace and tranquility when they see a calming exhibit? Why do they like certain pieces vs X and what does it say about them?
Pros and cons
Pros: Tend to be open minded types which makes them good in bed as well as low maintenance and more likely to agree to non-status quo relationship modelsl
Cons: May be too "wishy washy" for some guys
Other Considerations - Your "Clique"
I'd personally say archetype is the biggest determiner of how "easy" things will be with a girl but this is a close second.
By "clique" I mean what sub-sect of society are you in?
E.g. are you a hipster, Jersey shore type, Love Island type, goth, hip-hop head, K-Pop Lover, Investment Banker, Festival Lover, Underground Rave lover?
I often use music to split up cliques as it's often a key thing that brings people together but it can also be how you decide to dress, the places you go to, what you consider fun, how they speak etc.
Often if a girl is in my "clique" simply by how they talk or the things they reference I can determine what music they like and what boys they go for.
Girls who are both your ideal archetype AND clique are the most enjoyable. You'll like them and you'll notice they'll also be super into you too.
With that said I've met girls in my "Clique" who haven't fitted me AT ALL because they're a contrasting archetype. If I do pull it off it ends up being very short-lived.
At the same time there are girls who've been my archetype but not my "Clique" so it starts of great but there isn't enough common ground to sustain the same excitement at the start for a long time... That may be a DWW problem though as I capture a wide net and haven't "niched" that much yet.
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Curious to hear all your thoughts and additions - DWW x
P.S In case you're wondering I'm a cosy home body with hints of intellectual and artsy
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