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Hey guys. This seems like a simple question but apparently I'm getting confused over something that should be simple to me. It'll make sense after I explain it.
I do this thing where if I really want to find out if I'm physically or sexually attracted to the woman I'm seeing with, I would masturbate while thinking about her naked and doing stuff. If I can feel good off of that, I conclude I'm attracted to her. If I can't, then I must not be attracted to her. I've done it recently having a few girls in mind and now I'm pretty much confused on how to proceed from here.
With the girl I met from speed dating, I've done it while thinking about her and I wasn't able to get hard readily for some reason or enjoy it. I conclude that I didn't know how her body looked like as she is a skinny build (|'m assuming). But I was somehow able to climax thinking about her, so I concluded that I must be attracted to her (makes sense since she has a pretty face.)
I've decided to see if what I felt about her that time was similar to a past experience. I was in a relationship with a girl I didn't find physically attractive (I thought I could learn to like her ik stupid) and while I was near her body during sex, I could get a boner for her but couldn't keep it up (I assumed I got a boner initially for her due to feeling her body heat). When I tried masturbating to my ex, even I find I couldn't get to a climax like I did thinking about other girls. In the past, I couldn't think about my ex and ejaculate. However, when I tried thinking about her recently I was able to ejaculate and it felt similar when I tried masturbating to the girl I've just met, something I wasn't able to do back then (and believe me she still looks the same as she did, didn't change a single thing). So now I'm pretty much confused.
So guys, can you get turned on when you're with women you're not that attracted to? Even during when you have sex with her?
I do this thing where if I really want to find out if I'm physically or sexually attracted to the woman I'm seeing with, I would masturbate while thinking about her naked and doing stuff. If I can feel good off of that, I conclude I'm attracted to her. If I can't, then I must not be attracted to her. I've done it recently having a few girls in mind and now I'm pretty much confused on how to proceed from here.
With the girl I met from speed dating, I've done it while thinking about her and I wasn't able to get hard readily for some reason or enjoy it. I conclude that I didn't know how her body looked like as she is a skinny build (|'m assuming). But I was somehow able to climax thinking about her, so I concluded that I must be attracted to her (makes sense since she has a pretty face.)
I've decided to see if what I felt about her that time was similar to a past experience. I was in a relationship with a girl I didn't find physically attractive (I thought I could learn to like her ik stupid) and while I was near her body during sex, I could get a boner for her but couldn't keep it up (I assumed I got a boner initially for her due to feeling her body heat). When I tried masturbating to my ex, even I find I couldn't get to a climax like I did thinking about other girls. In the past, I couldn't think about my ex and ejaculate. However, when I tried thinking about her recently I was able to ejaculate and it felt similar when I tried masturbating to the girl I've just met, something I wasn't able to do back then (and believe me she still looks the same as she did, didn't change a single thing). So now I'm pretty much confused.
So guys, can you get turned on when you're with women you're not that attracted to? Even during when you have sex with her?
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