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TomGray

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University

Girl 1: walking towards me, cute brunette. My weakness is girls that walk towards me so I try to initiate. She says that she's on her way to meet someone so I let her go.

To improve on: stronger opening but good to get some practice on these girls

Girl 2: walking towards me, tall(ish) blonde. There are some trees in the median between us so she takes the other path. I call out to her and walk over. She is very open and responsive. She's wearing sunglasses so I ask her what her eyes look like. I try to move her by saying that I have to go, but she says she needs to get some work done so would I like her number? I persist and she says "How about you walk with me?" As soon as she says that, it's like a crystal foghorn blares in my head that that's what I should have done in the first place. So I walk with her. I'm not feeling super sexy so my conversation is a little clunky. But it's evident that she likes me. We reach our destination and we agree to meet up sometime and I get the number no problemo. But my phone's dead! So I tell her to write it on my hand. Give her a chance to touch me. I tell her to give me a hug goodbye and she acquiesces easily.

To improve on: SLEGIM, walk with them especially if they're headed the opposite way than you

Community College Library

Girl: small brunette sitting down studying. I approach somewhat sexily this time, (I was really turned on last class fantasizing about my fellow classmates). But she is not that responsive. She says that she has to go take a test now, right now, and gets up. I try to make something happen but she says she has a boyfriend.

To improve on: SLEGIM (was really quiet but in a sexy way, I think. It was the library so that's okay?)
 

NarrowJ

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Hey Tom,

Something that jumps out at me here: girl 1, I would have told her something like "Dont run off so quick, I want to talk to you. Just for a minute." Say this with a warm, genuine looking smile. If she stops, it's a good deal of compliance and investment you're getting from this girl right off the bat, and if it doesn't work and she keeps going, oh well. Onto the next approach. I usually won't continue to try to hold them up if they still decline after this, though.

-NJ
 
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