Urgent help needed - Bad Logistics costing me lay

[empath]

I recently went on a date with a girl who likes to smoke up.

Now I have scheduled a second date with her and I was thinking of laying her on this one.

I can sleep with her at my place because of my flatmates.

These Assholes will make my life hell because they think since I am dating someone ( I should not sleep casually)

My gf (trying to break up with her) comes regularly at my place.

Option one is to cancel the plan

Option 2 is tell her honestly ask her to be discreet and lay her (risk losing her too)

Option 3 Make her sneak in at my place let's see whatever happenes

Option 4 is to keep this date short and meet her once her flat is empty which will be in October. (Move fast?)

She is thinking that we will chill and smoke up only idk if this will give her more friendly vibes

Also is there a way to handle my flatmates that would be cool too

 

[empath]

Date is in 3 hours I am thinking about stalling it late

 

[gameboy]

Dude why would your flat mateas be an obstacle? You no longer have a girl friend right?

 

[empath]

Actually I haven't to told them about my break up attempt with her and she keeps coming over. So in principle I have a gf. Clean break up didn't happened.

 

[empath]

The issue is this bitch is very talkative and she my flatmates we matched on bumble.

I think many people here will also think what I am doing is wrong so I can understand non community folk being white knight.

Sneaking in is high risk high rewards (can cause a lot of potential drama)

I need to frame my situation as non conducive to seduction and use it as a Barrier to this chick and wait till her flat get empty i guess

 

[gameboy]

Actually I haven't to told them about my break up attempt with her and she keeps coming over. So in principle I have a gf. Clean break up didn't happened.

Ok then that's a problem. Any chance you can take her to a spot in nature to escalate?

 

[empath]

This is India bro but depends on how horny I can make her in public

 

[empath]

I think it will be tough to lay best I can do is finger her

 

[empath]

Or maybe I will just say to my flatmates that I have broken up with my gf but that will be very sus and she might come over till a month or so until we broke up properly idk

Any my old ex also came back into city and called me.

Fuck why do I end up clingy womens

 

[empath]

I chose honesty + sneaking her in.

She lying in my bed.

I will detail what happened with her in my FR

 

[DylanBob]

The best solution in this one is honesty. After all if you're both liking each and the only obstacles are flatmates who would be jealous - because jealousy always sparks a lot of problem -, then it's no point to lie, so maybe she will understand this, and situation would be under control, regardless of extra risks. Good luck

 

[empath]

The best solution in this one is honesty. After all if you're both liking each and the only obstacles are flatmates who would be jealous - because jealousy always sparks a lot of problem -, then it's no point to lie, so maybe she will understand this, and situation would be under control, regardless of extra risks. Good luck

Yeah did this twice. Telling them to sneak in works best