Using descriptive language

[Dark Knight]

I'm part way through reading Drexel Scott's article "sexuality game: making her wet with your words" and am quite conflicted with the law of least effort as using descriptive language seems to contradict the law of least effort.

I just want to know when it is best to use the law of least effort when communicating cause I can picture plenty of situations where descriptive language would be most suitable e.g. Complementing a girl about a article of clothing see has on

Is it kind of when you are speaking on your own (without been prompted) you use descriptive language and when you are prompted/as questions you try use law of least effort ?

 

[Richard]

1) If you break down the Law of Least Effort from moment by moment (always in the present) to the amount of effort individuals put in from start to finish, then you're still obeying the Law. You exert a little more verbal effort to tell a sensual story, or be sexually descriptive, but that gets her to use more effort for the rest of the interaction.

2) Chase discusses telling a story, and how your ability to tell a good story is extremely helpful conversation-wise, and what you're doing with sexual description is essentially the same thing; you're telling a story. Chase covers the benefit in that article as well.

Cheers,

-Richard

 

[Dark Knight]

thanks for the helps

 

[Just_Dave]

It's a way of letting her know you want to be her lover, rather than her friend. Sexy men aren't afraid to let a woman know exactly what he wants from her.

 

[Whizzy]

Another way to think about it is the effect that using those couple extra descriptive words can have on a women. The ability to make her go wild with only a few extra words seems low effort to me

 

[Longshanks]

If anyone has tried this, especially Drexell himself, and would care to link a FR or LR involving it, I'd really like to see how it works out in practice. Drexell says in the article that at least two women caught on to what he was doing and said "Stop doing this to me" or something to that effect. Do you think there is a good way to avoid bringing this to a conscious level with women? And how do you avoid 'cresting' them?