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stratvm

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i had an interesting story on my short trip to vienna that made me realize a few things.

story short:

met a girl from my favourite online source as i really have a hard time with approach anxiety - she was completely different than the photo she posted but i was like `meh, why not, i have nothing better to do`. we went to a bar which was full so walked over to another one. as soon as i took the jacket off i noticed attraction in her eyes. we sat down next to each other so that our legs could touch and indeed she put her leg to my leg - within 20minutes of arriving to the bar we were on our way to my flat where we had sex and i was surprised how good she was - you would never guess a cute conservative-looking girl can be a real demon in the bed probably because she need to perform better in bed than her more awesomely looking colleagues. respect to her. after 3 hours she left - she knew what this story was about.

some remarks to the bar interaction:
- my fundamentals which improved a lot in the last year handled the whole situation, fundamentals are 85% of the whole process
- pauses and bored looks work, it puts a lot of pressure on the girl
- implicitly pointing out that youre not boyfriend material by mentioning dating with other girl makes the right expectations in girls, this girl was absolutely happy with the situation and knew it was a one-off story sho she doesnt feel bad about herself - i never pointed out the no-boyfriend material stuff before but it is really important
- i used the technique to make the talk sexual ive read in one of NJ`s lays - speaking about friday nancy - secret garden and about shy conservative looking girls being absolute badass was the final nail in the coffin of boredom for the rest of the night. it works.
- on the audio tape the guy SixTwo Chase interviewed spoke about wearing tight fitted clothes is working, i have consistently better results despite being overweight in tight clothing, also polarizing, eccentric clothing style that men despise and laugh at works well with girls
- she was so obvious that i basically skipped all steps and signaled green flag to sex by mentioning how i love viennas architecture and that i rent an
awesome flat that she should check out for which she said yes

some remarks in general
- despite not mentioning to her that we should have sex ever she mentioned that i was absolutely blatantly obvious about what i wanted to do. the interesting thing is that i never had problems with taking girls home, it was always LMR that ruined the nights - maybe the others didnt get the hint?
- we talked a bit as well and she confirmed what Chase wrote in the `how girls sign interest` that if a girl asks about where you live, if you live alone etc essentially means "take me home and make me yours",
- she also pointed out if he is dating a guy he sometimes sleep with him asap but with others she is just playing around meeting 3-4-5 times before sleeping with them because she knows she has them - if they disappear she never writes to them because "it is not meant to be" - girls are fatalists.
- there is absolutely no correlation between the looks of a girl and the experience in bed, i mean i was with gorgeous girls who reminded more of a dead tree than a girl - looks matter until you take them to the bed. just close your eyes and imagine you are with the best girl ever born on earth

personal remarks
- being an easy lay i enjoyed the intercourse a lot and i realized girls giving me (and possibly others) a hard time just cut the wood under themselves - the more i need to work the less im satisfied especially that an average girl seems to be completely clueless in bed and even experienced ones had problems with their skills department. girls who sleep with you on date1 should be awarded some medal.
- quiting from porn & masturbation worths the time and effort, it does wonders
- despite my successes from online sources i have crippling approach anxiety and probably related execution flaw - dont know what im going to do with this
- 10mg cialis seems to be the optimal dosage if you are fine otherwise - its a good balance between stamina and sensibility though i will try 5mg too. just cut a 20mg tablet half.
 

Marty

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Congratulations Stratum.

I assume from your comment about the architecture that you are speaking of Vienna, Austria not Vienna, Virginia?

What favorite website are you using?

Do you want to talk through the approach anxiety thing, or are you happy doing things the way you are? Your execution seems on-point. I have the opposite problem :)

-Marty
 

stratvm

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hey Marty, thanks man! its vienna, austria - had to go there for a few days. the site ive been using in the last 1y+ is a popular sugardaddy site, there are tons out there - you dont need to pay anything to most of these girls and so far this has been the best effort-return ratio i`ve seen. im absolutely sure that these sites are goldmines in big US and UK cities.

i`ve recently started to experiment with tinder after justdaves report and it seems promising. after playing with a few profile variations i found one that brings a good number of quality matches. have the 1st 3 dates in the next few days and have a massive backlog of matches but i reckon in the us/uk its not really good because of the sheer number of users and insane competition.

re approach anxiety its just stupid - during the day it prevents me from even saying hi and makes me think 3x during the night. when i was going out regularly it faded but i didnt have much success i can think of apart from filipinas but thats not a challenge and not something we aim for - very different culture though there are really hot ones...

what i can think of is that
1) i have serious congruency issues - girls expect something else than what i present because im otherwise more or less fine using online sources
2) if im certain a girl likes me i can run the process as i should but when not i get cold feet/fck up in some other way.

would need to go out more but now with tinder i have excuse again not to :D
 

RAFox

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Damn it!

I live in Vienna, can't believe I missed you! It's super hard to have someone to game with...dammit
Nevertheless, great report! Can you give me any neat places for pick up or suchlike?

Rogan
 

Hector Papi Castillo

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Re: Damn it!

RAFox said:
I live in Vienna, can't believe I missed you! It's super hard to have someone to game with...dammit
Nevertheless, great report! Can you give me any neat places for pick up or suchlike?

Rogan

I was in Vienna for New Year's Eve. I do plan to return, though, so if I do, I'll message you!
 
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stratvm

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hello guys, sorry ive disappeared but I`ve been a bit busy + found a very nice girl on tinder for which im going to thank Dave in a minute.

actually im not much in Vienna, once a year. I`ve been to skybar with this girl and saw a few single girl groups there so that might worth a shot to check out but im really not familiar with the town. ive been to volksgarten and literally spoke to all of the girls but didn't score much. im not really popular in that part of the world middle east is much better for a white man. I used my fav. sugardaddy site to setup the date and I didn't pay anything to the girl as usual. I rented a flat through a popular p2p flat rental site that I use while im travelling.

I more recommend Budapest though in hungary, where im originaly from - the city is pretty much dead except fri-sat maybe thu. trendy places change fast like in dubai so its hard to keep up tbh. university parties are always excellent places for pickup, if there was girlschase.com back in the days, probably I would have slept with a different girl every other day.
 

RAFox

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Re: Damn it!

stratvm said:
hello guys, sorry ive disappeared but I`ve been a bit busy + found a very nice girl on tinder for which im going to thank Dave in a minute.

actually im not much in Vienna, once a year. I`ve been to skybar with this girl and saw a few single girl groups there so that might worth a shot to check out but im really not familiar with the town. ive been to volksgarten and literally spoke to all of the girls but didn't score much. im not really popular in that part of the world middle east is much better for a white man. I used my fav. sugardaddy site to setup the date and I didn't pay anything to the girl as usual. I rented a flat through a popular p2p flat rental site that I use while im travelling.

I more recommend Budapest though in hungary, where im originaly from - the city is pretty much dead except fri-sat maybe thu. trendy places change fast like in dubai so its hard to keep up tbh. university parties are always excellent places for pickup, if there was girlschase.com back in the days, probably I would have slept with a different girl every other day.
Thanks for the info!

Anatman said:
I was in Vienna for New Year's Eve. I do plan to return, though, so if I do, I'll message you!

Sounds great mate!
 
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