LR Virgin (15 Months)

[KJ Francis]

Met July 2023.

How to deal with virgin pain?

Here's a fun one... Any tips? I met this girl on Bumble... Filipino Christian with a Jesus fish on the back of her car. We had a short first date... Prearranged two-bounce, coffee to start then drive to a nearby park for a walk around the pond. She showed up looking kind of stern. Maybe like...

www.skilledseducer.com

She came over 5 times in the last 3 months, including today.

Past 1 month texting:

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Her: Are you free on Thursday?

Me: Hi (her name)! I have (redacted) unfortunately. When are you next free?

Her: My only off next week is Thursday, how about tomorrow 6pm?

Me: Can't tomorrow, but Monday or Tuesday would work

Her: I can't, I'm working Monday to Wednesday, how about after this week Monday? 16th

Me: Sure, that works! Let's do it

Her:Ok see you,
If I'm not this tired, I would go to your house, see the girl you are with today just like the other girl

Her: Good morning! See you later

Me:Good! Have a great day

Her: Thank you , have a great day too

Me: How's 6:30 or 7?

Her: Not 6?

Me: Nope still finishing up

Her:Ok
6:30 then

Her: Good morning, how was it last night?slept well?

Me: You were at the door fully dressed. It seemed in the blink of an eye. A second before you were with me. Glad you came back in to say goodbye

Her: Sounds like a poem, it was too short but I caught myself sleeping so I had to go. Thank you for being a gentleman

Her: I miss you

Me: What do you miss

Her: You, your lips and hair.

Me: Come put your lips and hands on me

Her: Sadly I can't, I'm working
You have (redacted) on Thursday right?

Me: Hey!! Yes tonight
When are you free next?
Come by early morning after work sometime if it comes to that

Her: I can come by after work on the 5th, I have to take a shower and eat at your place though

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So 8am, usual makeout, cuddles, finger has an easier time finally, micro progression over months.

Got half insert, still finished. Still soreness. Her most common verbal objection was always worried if she ever got a serious relationship, he wouldn't like that she is not a virgin. If anything, I saved him headaches honestly.

She said she wants to find a book that will help her learn how to move her hips. And she was resistant at first to neck kisses because she has church tomorrow.

 

[Chase]

Met July 2023.

How to deal with virgin pain?

Here's a fun one... Any tips? I met this girl on Bumble... Filipino Christian with a Jesus fish on the back of her car. We had a short first date... Prearranged two-bounce, coffee to start then drive to a nearby park for a walk around the pond. She showed up looking kind of stern. Maybe like...

www.skilledseducer.com

She came over 5 times in the last 3 months, including today.

So finally popped that cherry after a year+ huh?

You played the long game with this one, @Francis!

She said she wants to find a book that will help her learn how to move her hips. And she was resistant at first to neck kisses because she has church tomorrow.

Man, you'd better find her a video on that.

Who learns how to move her hips from a book?

Chase

 

[KJ Francis]

So finally popped that cherry after a year+ huh?

You played the long game with this one, @Francis!



Man, you'd better find her a video on that.

Who learns how to move her hips from a book?

Chase

Ha to be honest, she long gamed me pretty well. In my best David Attenborough voice... Here, we observe the female has secured attachment of the male through physical bonding... further engendering her long-term security and comfort... Let's watch as we observe now the launching mechanism seen more commonly in the orb-weaving spider...

She really did seem excessively tight, but I wonder how much was real pain and what was a withholding strategy. I was mostly just outcome independent and enjoyed it, since all we've ever done is hang in bed since the second date. I told her she left her hair clip and she said she'll get it next time and to not give it to one of my other girls. I have inadvertently hurt a good handful of girls now, so am trying to set good expectations here.

Something she said made me think she was hinting at borrowing My Secret Garden lol I think she just has no idea what sex is going to be like.