Howdy, girls chase! We've only just met, but I'm sure we're going to get along just fine.
So, I met this girl through a mutual friend of ours. The mutual friend if someone I had met about a week earlier at a party, connected with really well, and semi-mandhandle kissed in front of a few people. I mean, she turned her head down and backed off, I pulled her back in, tilted her chin up, and kissed her anyway. It kind of flowed naturally in the conversation. We made out a couple of times later when no one else was around in the wee hours of the morning, but it turns out she's got a guy she's really into who things were in the "might be about to get serious" phase with, but she said she REALLY wanted to introduce me to a friend of hers. I probably should have pushed, but I guess that's an FU report for another day.
A few days later, she introduces the friend at a party I was throwing. Another guy (a 'friend' that I am now screening out of my life for the most part) kept literally trying to insert himself between us. I tried to make it as non-awkward as possible, and mostly ignored him. He didn't know what he was doing, and mostly kept talking about his vacation in Japan. She and I spoke only briefly, but we exchanged a lot of smirks and meaningful glances, and set up a date for the next day. We also connected pretty well later in the evening when things calmed down a bit.
We met for the date, had ice cream, went back up to my apartment. She went to the sink to clean up as her ice cream melted all over her hands. She had some on her lips, and I grabbed a clean dish towel, wet it, pulled her close, and dabbed off her lips. She asks if it had been there the whole time, I told her not to worry about it...and kissed her. Not an ounce of resistance, and she went straight into tongue. Pretty much melted into me.
We got pretty heavy on my couch shortly thereafter. She told me she wanted to take it slow, I agreed, and waited at least 30 seconds before feeling her up again, like a true gentleman. Before long, I had my hands in her pants, rubbing her through her panties with one hand, put her hand on my cock over my jeans, was fondling one of her tits, and necking her from behind.
She then said out loud, "I haven't done a lot of stuff, so I'm sorry if I'm not very good..."
I asked her what kind of stuff she hadn't done, she said, "Just stuff..."
I turned her around and asked her if she was a virgin, and she said yes.
I said, "We can't have sex." She asked why, I told her I didn't want to break her heart, she said she wasn't expecting anything long term. We continued making out and sort of having a conversation about expectations and relationships while doing it. She was surprisingly down to earth and chill for someone so inexperienced.
We kind of hit a wall in the physical escalation, however. We conversed and connected quite a bit more, and spent way too many hours in my bed fooling around -- we must have been there from 3PM to 1AM, barring a break for dinner. She stayed the night then took off pretty early in the morning after some cuddling.
The next day, I sent her an "I had fun" type text (d'oh) with a reminder that something she wanted to go to was the next night. She texted me back, agreed on the fun, and asked me for details on the invite. I typed them all up and failed to sent. D'oh again! I sent them the next day (after it started) with a brief explanation of what went down, and then told her to come anyway. It was a dancing event, and she missed the basic lesson, but I'd taught her the basic steps in a haphazard way the day before. She declined and said she was going to be a "lazybutt" and do homework instead. I teased her a bit with my next text, but told her to take care and do well.
I'm honestly debating when to call again, given that the slip up on the last invite. I'm hoping to let intrigue rebuild after the negative compliance on the last event, but not spend so long waiting that I send her into auto-rejection / let the fire die.
I've been getting a decent amount of same-day action (some lays, mostly making out), but very little follow up, so this is a transition phase I need to get down pat. Input is, naturally, appreciated.
So, I met this girl through a mutual friend of ours. The mutual friend if someone I had met about a week earlier at a party, connected with really well, and semi-mandhandle kissed in front of a few people. I mean, she turned her head down and backed off, I pulled her back in, tilted her chin up, and kissed her anyway. It kind of flowed naturally in the conversation. We made out a couple of times later when no one else was around in the wee hours of the morning, but it turns out she's got a guy she's really into who things were in the "might be about to get serious" phase with, but she said she REALLY wanted to introduce me to a friend of hers. I probably should have pushed, but I guess that's an FU report for another day.
A few days later, she introduces the friend at a party I was throwing. Another guy (a 'friend' that I am now screening out of my life for the most part) kept literally trying to insert himself between us. I tried to make it as non-awkward as possible, and mostly ignored him. He didn't know what he was doing, and mostly kept talking about his vacation in Japan. She and I spoke only briefly, but we exchanged a lot of smirks and meaningful glances, and set up a date for the next day. We also connected pretty well later in the evening when things calmed down a bit.
We met for the date, had ice cream, went back up to my apartment. She went to the sink to clean up as her ice cream melted all over her hands. She had some on her lips, and I grabbed a clean dish towel, wet it, pulled her close, and dabbed off her lips. She asks if it had been there the whole time, I told her not to worry about it...and kissed her. Not an ounce of resistance, and she went straight into tongue. Pretty much melted into me.
We got pretty heavy on my couch shortly thereafter. She told me she wanted to take it slow, I agreed, and waited at least 30 seconds before feeling her up again, like a true gentleman. Before long, I had my hands in her pants, rubbing her through her panties with one hand, put her hand on my cock over my jeans, was fondling one of her tits, and necking her from behind.
She then said out loud, "I haven't done a lot of stuff, so I'm sorry if I'm not very good..."
I asked her what kind of stuff she hadn't done, she said, "Just stuff..."
I turned her around and asked her if she was a virgin, and she said yes.
I said, "We can't have sex." She asked why, I told her I didn't want to break her heart, she said she wasn't expecting anything long term. We continued making out and sort of having a conversation about expectations and relationships while doing it. She was surprisingly down to earth and chill for someone so inexperienced.
We kind of hit a wall in the physical escalation, however. We conversed and connected quite a bit more, and spent way too many hours in my bed fooling around -- we must have been there from 3PM to 1AM, barring a break for dinner. She stayed the night then took off pretty early in the morning after some cuddling.
The next day, I sent her an "I had fun" type text (d'oh) with a reminder that something she wanted to go to was the next night. She texted me back, agreed on the fun, and asked me for details on the invite. I typed them all up and failed to sent. D'oh again! I sent them the next day (after it started) with a brief explanation of what went down, and then told her to come anyway. It was a dancing event, and she missed the basic lesson, but I'd taught her the basic steps in a haphazard way the day before. She declined and said she was going to be a "lazybutt" and do homework instead. I teased her a bit with my next text, but told her to take care and do well.
I'm honestly debating when to call again, given that the slip up on the last invite. I'm hoping to let intrigue rebuild after the negative compliance on the last event, but not spend so long waiting that I send her into auto-rejection / let the fire die.
I've been getting a decent amount of same-day action (some lays, mostly making out), but very little follow up, so this is a transition phase I need to get down pat. Input is, naturally, appreciated.
