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After going through the now infamous "Why the disdain for virgin hunters in seduction?" thread, I thought it raised another interesting question. Is a person's value inversely proportional to the number of sexual partners they have?
It seems to me that there is a prevailing view in the community that this is true for women. For example, @Chase has repeatedly stated that he would not take a woman who has had many previous partners as a girlfriend.
If we consider that statement to be true for women, but also for men, most of the guys here would be the last guys on the planet that a woman would want to get involved with. These same guys in the community, however, consider themselves much better partners than a "normal" guy could ever be.
I had a very different experience. Two of the "0 body count" virgins I had as girlfriends when I was young turned out to be just average (or even less so) in terms of personality.
On the other hand, I had a year and a half relationship with a French-Canadian woman who had so many flings that most PUA guys would blush with shame. I think she was the most beautiful human being I have ever met.
My reality completely contradicts the equation where value = (1 / hookups_count). PS The value of a virgin would be 1 / 0 = infinite
It seems to me that there is a prevailing view in the community that this is true for women. For example, @Chase has repeatedly stated that he would not take a woman who has had many previous partners as a girlfriend.
If we consider that statement to be true for women, but also for men, most of the guys here would be the last guys on the planet that a woman would want to get involved with. These same guys in the community, however, consider themselves much better partners than a "normal" guy could ever be.
I had a very different experience. Two of the "0 body count" virgins I had as girlfriends when I was young turned out to be just average (or even less so) in terms of personality.
On the other hand, I had a year and a half relationship with a French-Canadian woman who had so many flings that most PUA guys would blush with shame. I think she was the most beautiful human being I have ever met.
My reality completely contradicts the equation where value = (1 / hookups_count). PS The value of a virgin would be 1 / 0 = infinite
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