Von Brasi's Journal

[JakethaSnake]

I am recently divorced, and getting back into the game. I have used sex sites in the past to get women like Fling & Adult Friendfinder which has been detrimental to my AA & Social Game, but I've bedded dozens of women online. I will get better and more comfortable with speaking with women in public in the daytime and at night.

I live close to downtown, and a mid sized college, so I have no excuses to get out and capitalize on the insight from the pros here. It's going to rain today here in Michigan, so I will either find a cafe to sit in or stalk the campus tomorrow when the weather is right. I will report good and bad as it comes to me. Looking forward to the adventures.

 

[JakethaSnake]

The weather was crappy, so not many girls around walking. I went to a coffee shop and just struck up a little conversation with a table of cute girls. The process wasn't as hard as it seemed, they even commented most men don't come up to a group of girls. I didn't go for a number, because I was really just focusing on have a regular easy conversation with a stranger. Until I'm comfortable approaching random women with small talk, the GAME won't flow easily or confidently.

I'm going to make it a habit to speak to a random woman daily. At work, we had our weekly meeting, and I used the body language and eye contact knowledge and realized several of my female colleagues were stealing glances. It feels good to know I have options at work.

 

[JakethaSnake]

I went out Friday night and had some good and not so good results. I did indirect approaches and direct approaches. My vibe was good and I was dressed right, so I was being eye fucked, but it wasn't the right crowd that I wanted. There were alot of fat and overweight women and I did not want to start out talking to cows. I approached two solid 7s who were sitting at the bar, they had a pink girly drink, I made a decent comment then intro ordered mine, asked them to watch it joked about them drugging me, yada yada, it worked I pulled a number.

Did a few direct approaches in smoking area, the women were all in groups of 2 or 3, and no solo opps. No success here just a few smiles and rolled eyes. Before I left, I approached a heavier chick for the hell of it, and made sure the number from earlier could see me talking to her, I made it a point to make her laugh, but not seem to seductive. Right as I was walking out, the girl from earlier gave me the call me sign. We'll see what happens. Approach Anxiety almost got the best of me, but I manned up. They're only women, and worst thing they can say is no. Working toward same day lay little by little.

 

[JakethaSnake]

I am recently divorced, and getting back into the game. I have used sex sites in the past to get women like Fling & Adult Friendfinder which has been detrimental to my AA & Social Game, but I've bedded dozens of women online. I will get better and more comfortable with speaking with women in public in the daytime and at night.

I live close to downtown, and a mid sized college, so I have no excuses to get out and capitalize on the insight from the pros here. It's going to rain today here in Michigan, so I will either find a cafe to sit in or stalk the campus tomorrow when the weather is right. I will report good and bad as it comes to me. Looking forward to the adventures.

I thought I'd go a little more in depth about my past, for perspective. I am 27 now btw. I slept with 5 girls in High School, then attended a college in a warm weather state and that number skyrocketed to over 40+. Facebook started when I was a freshman, so I met most of the girls either in class, or facebook. A few at parties and clubs but mainly online.

This continued after college, and the last time I counted my lay count was near or at 105. Majority have been from online hookup sex sites, so they really weren't gorgeous, mostly 6s or 7s. Majority black girls, then Asians, and Latinas, and few white girls. I'd post a pic of my dick on the site and because I'm endowed I'd get interest from size queens without very much work needed on my behalf. This killed my skills as a conversationalist and social aptitude. Eventually, I thought I met the one, and I got her pregnant, then married her to keep the family together, because she found text and called this college girl I was fucking on the side. This continued, she lost respect for me and I became more Beta as days went by. Divorce was like a mercy killing for the both of us.

My Rebirth, I found this site, because I really have just been re-fucking the girls I was before when I was a serial cheater. I know I can bed women, I just want to bed more attractive better quality women, and be comfortable and confident doing it. Thanks for reading this long post, and even though I'm new to this site, I am very experienced with women. Mostly online and text, so Cold Approach, Street Approach, Daygame, are where I need to hone my skills. Happy Hunting fellas.

 

[JakethaSnake]

Update as of 09/15,

I have met women easily on Tinder which isn't a surprise, because my online game is top notch. I've did approaches on the street, with limited success. I did get a number from a better looking girl while on a Tinder date at the bar. That number turned into a next day bar lay.

Next Day Bar Lay,

Got her # while out on a Tinder date with a 6. She had green highlights so lets call her GH. We texted a few times, mostly getting logistics and basic background info, with a little deep diving. We meet at the bar, she's late, so she buys first round of shots which is customary with girls who show up late on dates with me. I grabbed her by the arm and pulled her into me, when I saw her walking in which immediately set the frame as me being dominant and confident.

Went next door to a more divey down to earth bar. She commenced to touch me everywhere, grab my dick, my arms, touch my chest, etc. I don't kiss girls in bars, but I felt her ass and tits, and kissed her on her neck and tits. Told her it was time we went somewhere without so many ppl watching us. I drove us back to my place, maybe 10 min away, and not even 15 minutes into us getting there, we were fucking. Avg blowjob but she was eager to do it at any moment, but she wanted to fuck all night.

We had a good time, I dropped her off at her car in the morning after we went about 3 rounds then both fell asleep from exhaustion and drunkeness. One night stand is all she gets, maybe i'll text her next week or something.


First Tinder lay,

Went on 2 dates, first one was cheap and we walked and talked after I ate and she had a drink. I made sure to touch her on her back and thighs, and smile and smirk after sexual innuendos that she loved. I can tell she wanted me to kiss her, but I didn't. This often leads my dates to wanting more which worked.

2nd date
Went to a cpl bars, we paid for each other drinks, did a little dancing. Told the 3 animals story which she liked, props to Chase. Took her back to my place, listened to music, talked and i finger banged her until she squirted twice. Whipped out my dick, she gave an avg blowjob, she needs a coach. She's a squirter so the sex was fun and pleasurable in exchange for my bedsheets being soaked.

I invited her over 3 days later for a "massage." Her body is amazing so it was fun for both of us, fucked her 2 times that night. I had to change my sheets again in the morning.

Lays on Tinder will come weekly or biweekly with no issue, but I've just had one approach lay in about 3 weeks. I need to meet more girls in public no excuses.