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I would like to share the best explanation between Wanting/Neediness and Having/Abundance mentality I have ever seen.
WANTING = NEEDINESS = RADIATES VALUE TAKING => OTHER PEOPLE GETTING DEFENSIVE
If you 'want' something (mentally speaking) you don't have this thing in the present moment. Therefore, you are in VALUE TAKING modality. You communicate to people that you don't have it and that you are going to do something to get it. When they see it/sense it - they either get scared or at least defensive. Why? Because they are afraid that you will try to TAKE what you don't have from them.
HAVING/BEING = ABUNDANCE = RADIATES POTENTIAL VALUE GIVING => PEOPLE ARE ATTRACTED TO YOU HOPING THAT THEY CAN GET VALUE FROM YOU
If you 'have' something (mentally speaking) you already have this thing in the present moment. Since you already have something and aren't on the path of getting it - people don't get this defensive feeling. If you are also generous - they are attracted to you. Why? Because you are a giver and they are 'wanters', 'lackers' and they hope they can get something from you. If they feel like you have what they want - you will be like a magnes.
That's why you can't get women if you want women. If you have women, other women will want you because you are a man who has women.
WANTING = NEEDINESS = RADIATES VALUE TAKING => OTHER PEOPLE GETTING DEFENSIVE
If you 'want' something (mentally speaking) you don't have this thing in the present moment. Therefore, you are in VALUE TAKING modality. You communicate to people that you don't have it and that you are going to do something to get it. When they see it/sense it - they either get scared or at least defensive. Why? Because they are afraid that you will try to TAKE what you don't have from them.
HAVING/BEING = ABUNDANCE = RADIATES POTENTIAL VALUE GIVING => PEOPLE ARE ATTRACTED TO YOU HOPING THAT THEY CAN GET VALUE FROM YOU
If you 'have' something (mentally speaking) you already have this thing in the present moment. Since you already have something and aren't on the path of getting it - people don't get this defensive feeling. If you are also generous - they are attracted to you. Why? Because you are a giver and they are 'wanters', 'lackers' and they hope they can get something from you. If they feel like you have what they want - you will be like a magnes.
That's why you can't get women if you want women. If you have women, other women will want you because you are a man who has women.
