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Cro-Magnon Man
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Of course, this is part of building social momentum and can put you in state. Although after a while I'd suggest not using this as a crutch. It seems to be holding me back right now as a limiting belief,"I must approach a warm up before I attempt to go for that amazingly hot girl."

With the "I am enough" mentality, In state or out of state, momentum or not, I am me and will remain me. I can approach anyone in any situation, remain congruent and flow naturally..

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Cro-Magnon Man
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Inferno said:
talking to a"warm up girl" to build social momentum.
Doing it for momentum in the short term is fine as long as when you get to the beautiful ones you don't treat them any differently to the plain ones.
Just think, all girls have the same desires and hopes from you. The only difference is the plain ones at first don't allow themselves to be attracted to you and the beautiful ones are sick of men who don't think of them as equals. Don't put them on a pedestal.

In conclusion; plain girls may take a while to allow themselves to be attracted to you and may take longer to seduce (excluding the ones that give themselves to you through desperation) while beautiful girls are more confident and are already attracted to you (you must have an assumptive attitude that she is into you). So you are better off going for the beautiful ones because realistically they are easier to get.
Inferno said:
I find these girls give me more signals. Has anyone else experienced this?
I don't experience that because I only approach attractive ones. All girls give signals it's just that attractive ones can afford to be more subtle about it. Besides you should aim for results not reactions.
 
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