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I've been working on basic fundamentals this month--good posture, keeping my head up, and deliberate movement. I've noticed a difference in how girls react to me, BUT-- for some reason I can't seem to be warm and have good confident posture at the same time. It's either warm and soft, or "confident" but distant/standoffish. I've gotten better, but I still miss the quick rapport/connection that seems to happen when I'm softer. Obviously this kind of rapport causes no attraction, so I need to figure out the balance.
Is there any particular thing that may help with this, or things to be mindful of when trying to maintain warmth while still being confident?
Is there any particular thing that may help with this, or things to be mindful of when trying to maintain warmth while still being confident?