Ways of transition from provider to lover

[leadingbealwaysido]

I find myself have different results when it comes to falling into the provider / lover frame...

I would love to explore more techniques and theories on this and hear some experinces from you guys. Also if you have any gambits to share that would be amazing.

As I am new to sex-talk i find that it might be a bit understated that sex-talk is a great way to go from provider to lover, even though i have not read that spesifically in here, what you guys think? Is it enough with sex-talk or what other aspects is crucial to make sure you go into the lover "bucket"

I do mostly daygame or online apps.

 

[Jan]

This stage of transition from provider to lower is tough because there will be times when you show both traits. And you do this, you get her confused. You send mixed signals. And so you will get nothing for some time. You will not get a girl who wants a provider, and you won't get a girl who wants a lover.

Also expect that some chicks which you fucked, will not like to see you again. That's the game of the lover "You wanted fast sex. I gave it to you. So now fuck off."

I would say that the most important part is the mental part. To make yourself think as a lover. It's a new frame of mind. New experience. And it has both advantages and disadvantages.