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Ree

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I was explaining to my friend why us gamers want to stay out of the bf zone,
the accepted theory is if you sell yourself as a boyfriend the girl will overthink and put you under a microscope but if you just sell yourself as a walking dildo,the girl will fuck you and after several fucks fall in love.
so my friend then asked me,assuming a girl will fall in love if you fuck her regularly ,what would then stop hookers from falling in love with their regular clients.
so I talked to my hooker friends and apprently most guys who fuck hookers never fuck one often enough to be regulars.
most guys will just fuck a hooker once and then next time they will fuck a different hooker.
but my research seems to suggest that if an attractive client fucks one hooker regularly enough the hooker will fall in love.
I would want more inout and thoughts about this angle though.
so quick summary.
if fucking a girl regulalry makes her yours,would the same be true even if you were paying for sex?
 

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if fucking a girl regulalry makes her yours,would the same be true even if you were paying for sex?
If you initially paid for sex, hoocker, escort, stripper, sugar babies, only fans, cam girls and your game is tight, you can get the girl to fall for you hard, and get it free or even flip it and start getting stuff from them, obviously not ideal you start with a bad premise (look for the post on california pimp we discuss this in detail).... I have done it and many other guys have (even in the book the game is mentioned).... Women are women...
 

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If you initially paid for sex, hoocker, escort, stripper, sugar babies, only fans, cam girls and your game is tight, you can get the girl to fall for you hard, and get it free or even flip it and start getting stuff from them, obviously not ideal you start with a bad premise (look for the post on california pimp we discuss this in detail).... I have done it and many other guys have (even in the book the game is mentioned).... Women are women...
where is the post on california pimp?link kindly?
 

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where is the post on california pimp?link kindly?
It was originally a series of GC articles by @Karea Ricardus D. Someone more recently dug them up and started a very interesting thread:

 

ulrich

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I don’t think it’s the fucking itself that make a woman “yours”… rather the continued compliance and investment on her part (which you need for and get from fucking).

For a escort/prostitute/etc, the act of fucking has much lower investment and requires less compliance than from a regular girl.
Heck, she could ever be grossed by you and think you are the lamest guy she knows.

If you lay the same hooker 100 times will she be yours? Maybe.

Is she really complying if you pay her to do a job?
I feel different worker girls will answer differently to that question.
 
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I don’t think it’s the fucking itself that make a woman “yours”… rather the continued compliance and investment on her part (which you need for and get from fucking).

For a escort/prostitute/etc, the act of fucking has much lower investment and requires less compliance than from a regular girl.
Heck, she could ever be grossed by you and think you are the lamest guy she knows.

If you lay the same hooker 100 times will she be yours? Maybe.

Is she really complying if you pay her to do a job?
I feel different worker girls will answer differently to that question.
Well as you know if you can somehow take her out of the job script into being a wpman script that is hiw it works...mystery was good getting strippers doing this, i done it to out of the script is the key...
 

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I don’t think it’s the fucking itself that make a woman “yours”… rather the continued compliance and investment on her part (which you need for and get from fucking).

For a escort/prostitute/etc, the act of fucking has much lower investment and requires less compliance than from a regular girl.
Heck, she could ever be grossed by you and think you are the lamest guy she knows.

Sure, but if you genuinely make her cum, and actually give her enjoyable sex, meaning sweep her away with emotions and an experience, I think that's a big part of it. But you'd have to get her out of work mode first.

At least that's how I would do it. It's already known that she's there because of the money, but I'd turn into a date of sorts, get her following my frame and only fuck her when I see she's out of her normal "work mode" script and in her normal girl mode. As much as possible have it feel like an escalation where she forgot about the money and is asking herself how she feels about it.

Pulling this out of my ass though, haven't tried it. We need T-Pain in on this discussion.

 
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Well as you know if you can somehow take her out of the job script into being a wpman script that is hiw it works...mystery was good getting strippers doing this, i done it to out of the script is the key...
Oh definitely.
I was thinking more on the lines of regular guy game.

Would a regular guy who is not skilled at seduction get a LTR with a escort if he pays for her many many times?
I guess that’s the question that OP is looking to answer.
 

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A regular guy isn't gonna be chill enough to handle it. See even advanced players and puas on the adam 22 thing in off topic.

As far as being willing to date an sex worker, good game, AND being a hobbyist combo, you ain't gotta go to those lengths to gamble and see if she will get hooked on you and become your girl. The gamble is paying for same girl more than once for this theory, and missing out on 5, 10, 15 other women? Really? Then she's a shit girlfriend, it's boring, who knows. Been with a few myself free/LTR and they fizzled out, she got boring, demanding, same as usual.

I always just pull the Leaving Las Vegas (film) move "you wanna get drunk and hang out, can stay long as you want, I can't pay more though" and add "you seem cool" or "I enjoy talking to you though". What's lead to a few L/STRs with working girls. About same rate as cold approach pickup rejections. Only I fucked them all with no game and just normal bullshitting convo wise before and after.

I definite wouldn't waste the money (and new variety each whore wise) to test this theory to make one a likely fleeting girlfriend man. My 2 cents.

Also if you keep a gun, expensive watch or expensive phone hide that shit well when you sleep around a whore man, just saying.

Get a burner android phone and keep a couple cancelled credit cards (with written down fake pins on a piece of paper) out as decoys, that look like easy thefts. Nice to have for burglars anyway, cause they see that and grab it and bolt, vs ransacking looking for real valuables.

Getting dangerously close to escort hobbyist talk not PUA talk here though lol.


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Oh definitely.
I was thinking more on the lines of regular guy game.

Would a regular guy who is not skilled at seduction get a LTR with a escort if he pays for her many many times?
I guess that’s the question that OP is looking to answer.
I see, the only way this happens is if he completly buys her out, which is a horrible idea...drew haffner style
 

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Oh definitely.
I was thinking more on the lines of regular guy game.

Would a regular guy who is not skilled at seduction get a LTR with a escort if he pays for her many many times?
I guess that’s the question that OP is looking to answer.

@ulrich I see your point and I definitely agree. I think it has to be a combination of both:
1- A Regular who visits her usually
2- This regular has somehow game or at least he is not boring as fuck.

The more he interacts with her, the more chances he has to make a good impression and create positive emotions, and the more she will get attached.
I know a friend who fucks a whore regularly he offers to pay her to take a trip with him she declined. He has zero game.
 
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