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- Apr 7, 2021
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Put some huge effort into gym, diet, tanning and other style adjustments (like clothes - not even expensive, just well-fitting) in the last 9 months. Six-pack and all that. Went from girls calling me "kinda cute / sweet / funny" to "hot / sexy / addictive / SCRUMPTIOUS (lol loved that one)"
(Of course my confidence has jumped as well, so the attitude helps , not just looks)
Anyway though, I have noticed I may have to temper some of the more outlandish stuff I used to say to chicks... I feel like it might be coming off as tryhard?
Maybe its a point where I need to "do less..."
Conversely, maybe my extra confidence (and immense sex drive now) has led me to the point where I'm showing more neediness to get laid...like I feel like I need to use these new looks + attitude on as many chicks as possible. Maybe I'm only seeing more failure because I'm also trying more?
I also ALMOST feel self-conscious at girls who eye me up and down now. LOL careful what you wish for I guess.
Just spitballing. Would love to hear from anyone who's put work into their looks, and how your game has changed!
(Of course my confidence has jumped as well, so the attitude helps , not just looks)
Anyway though, I have noticed I may have to temper some of the more outlandish stuff I used to say to chicks... I feel like it might be coming off as tryhard?
Maybe its a point where I need to "do less..."
Conversely, maybe my extra confidence (and immense sex drive now) has led me to the point where I'm showing more neediness to get laid...like I feel like I need to use these new looks + attitude on as many chicks as possible. Maybe I'm only seeing more failure because I'm also trying more?
I also ALMOST feel self-conscious at girls who eye me up and down now. LOL careful what you wish for I guess.
Just spitballing. Would love to hear from anyone who's put work into their looks, and how your game has changed!