What angle can I take as an older guy in college to not be 'creepy'?

[DaVinciMatrixStyle]

Hi guys. So I graduate but decided to extend by a semester. Long story short, I am prior military for 6-7 years and went back to college. I graduate but never had a chance to have a campus life due to the pandemic but since things are back to normal, i decided to extend 1 semester.

Anyway, the age gap is obviously pretty big as I just turned 30 and girls here are 20-23. I don't really go after anyone younger than that.

I noticed that guys are more distant with me but girls are surprisingly very open and engaging. RN is summer but college starts for fall in bout a month or 2.

Obviously I'm not gonna join a frat or anything like that. Or even forming a social circle might be hard.

Maybe I could take the angle of 'attractive/mysterious' older/outsider guy but not sure.
College isn't greek dominated but it's like 20% of population. I'm not sure how girls would feel about an 'older guy' because of their friends. although I can tell they seem to be very receptive to me I'm more worried about how social circles will impact me since I'm older. Should i try to fit in? be outgoing? keep to myself?

Anyone have good ideas?

 

[mella]

I'm not a professional seducer but after the Army I went to college at 24, and got A LOT of sexual interest from the under-21 crowd. I can tell you what I learned.

Be yourself and radiate positivity at all times. You can never be considered "creepy" if you never have anything "creepy" on your mind and your movements all show that you are confident. Creepy boils down to one of two things - either you're a real creep with crazy things on your mind, or you're simply nervous and thus your choppy movements & behavior give off the same body language as a creep. It's probably silly, yes, to think that you could fit into a social circle of very young adults who are all still trying to figure out the world, and act like dumbasses, especially since you've done more than them and have seen more of the world than they have. There's always a little girl looking for a "wise daddy" though. This can be your niche. If they're already showing you a good amount of openness that means they're feeling your daddy vibe. If you have a lot to tell them that most guys don't, then you can really catch their interest and it'll be a big advantage to you. When I moved through college I personally avoided social circles since I simply didn't have interest in that. It wasn't even necessary for picking up chicks. A 19 year old girl would still fuck brad pitt all by his lonesome, so why not you? I am also around your age and I tend to speak on an intellectual level to girls younger than me. I have a lot to offer in that arena so it's easy for me to take that route. Also it shows that you're not thirsty, which is something that is appreciated. Because you offer them something other than dick which is what every guy on the planet can offer. Sex their mind.

Be humorous in class especially if it's kind of a dry atmosphere. Challenge the teacher in a light-hearted way, that will show confidence. That's my advice for the daytime...Best of luck to you I appreciate you brother for being in the military. Another thing, an easy way to learn to radiate positivity is to get into a little esoteria, not sure if that interests you in the least, but from personal experience I honestly tell you it can help a great deal and it'll give you the right calm attitude from which to proceed with. Also I recommend Gunwitch's articles. Smile a lot, and most importantly smile on the inside. Never forget that you are sexy no matter what age you are.

 

[Skills]

Hi guys. So I graduate but decided to extend by a semester. Long story short, I am prior military for 6-7 years and went back to college. I graduate but never had a chance to have a campus life due to the pandemic but since things are back to normal, i decided to extend 1 semester.

Anyway, the age gap is obviously pretty big as I just turned 30 and girls here are 20-23. I don't really go after anyone younger than that.

I noticed that guys are more distant with me but girls are surprisingly very open and engaging. RN is summer but college starts for fall in bout a month or 2.

Obviously I'm not gonna join a frat or anything like that. Or even forming a social circle might be hard.

Maybe I could take the angle of 'attractive/mysterious' older/outsider guy but not sure.
College isn't greek dominated but it's like 20% of population. I'm not sure how girls would feel about an 'older guy' because of their friends. although I can tell they seem to be very receptive to me I'm more worried about how social circles will impact me since I'm older. Should i try to fit in? be outgoing? keep to myself?

Anyone have good ideas?

This is all between your 2 ears, you are assuming stuff that is not even factual: -30 is not old, old is around 36 and over for some (i am over 45, still clubbing with teens, 0 issues)... As long as your fundamentals are right, you should be good.

 

[Fuck This]

1. Meet Graduate students.
2. Create Friendships among other guys in traditional age brackets for college.
3. When meeting women don't try to act young. Instead show you have more class and means than the knuckleheads doing kegstands
4. Dance well, and teach women to dance. if she feels sexy when dancing with you she will associate it with YOU...You demonstrate your ability to lead. those 1 credit pass Fail dance classes come in handy... Look for Social Swing or Latin.
5. Identify women who want to act more mature, an older man helps them do that.
6. Treat the University gym like an upper division class.
7. Take a leadership or instructional role in the ROTC program on campus.

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