IMPORTANT: None of these are needed to get somewhere with a girl, and you often will miss these anyway, so keep pushing!
Green Light
- Looks at you for more than 1.5 seconds- approach immediately. This is the female equivalent of "I think your penis would look nice in my mouth"
- Looks at you more than once- bright green light. Women are very careful who they look at, as they don't want to actively draw unwanted attention from losers
- If she is with a group of friends and they get quiet around you- sign of submission and attraction. Introduce yourself
- If she is with a group of friends and they get louder around you- a sign of attraction; they are trying to get your attention
- If she is walking close behind you at a steady pace- yellow light, since women who don't want to be around you will get away from you
- If she speeds up to overtake you, then slows down- she wants you to see her, particularly her ass. Super green light if she walks dead in front of you after
- If she is walking parallel with you and maintains your pace- a "Hey, how are you?" works well as she is in your bubble
- If you are waiting and she moves to be close by you- super green light if it's after you enter the scene and you see her notice you
- If a girl is looking around aimlessly, especially in your area- if you play coy only using peripherals, she may gradually be more and more blatant and you can then catch her in the act
- If she sighs for no reason- she wants to at least talk to someone, and probably you in particular
- She starts to stand on the balls of her feet and arch her back- she is feeling girly and nervous. Muster up your best deep voice and make her purr
- She moves her hair away from you and exposes her neck in your direction- a sign of submission
- She plays with her hair around you, especially while walking- think the Rory McElroy video
- She looks at you then down when you meet her eye- sign of submission
- At a grocery store she comes into your aisle and takes her time- good chance she likes you
- If she makes a request, like directions- she chose you out of everyone to ask, yellow light
- She primps and preens- makes adjustments to her hair, apparel, etc; straightens up or arches back or fidgets
Fuck Off Signals
- Sunglasses/Headphones- passive "fuck-off" to everyone, BUT you can get bonus points if you still approach her and she likes you! Nonverbally gesture for her to remove headphones to easily get around them
- She makes eye contact and then looks upward- she thinks she is higher value than you. Yellow light when to the side, also when dramatic (since she could be horny or playful)
- Doesn't make eye contact or look in your direction when passing you, or return your own eye contact
- Randomly answers her phone in your presence- especially if she just caught you checking her out
- Pulls her phone out while walking towards you- usually a fuck you, but sometimes because she is nervous and trying to look busy/cool
- Resting bitch face
- When standing around you is turned away from you- she definitely noticed you: she is a woman and hyperaware since her greatest desire is also potentially her greatest threat
- She is walking quickly and determinedly
- She switches sides of the street around you
- She is next to you but moves and puts someone between you
- She chooses a spot in the coffee shop far away from you
Note: if you experience fascination and an extreme pull to a certain girl, there's a 95% chance she will love your approach, thanks to emotional contagion, being a perfect genetic match, fate... who knows for sure. And apparently... it can be faked
Credit to
@Hector Papi Castillo
