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I'm quite sure I'm more attracted to conservative and elegantly (less skin-showing and more elegantly and gracefully dressed) girls as of now.
That's how I feel out in the field though I'm a virgin so I wouldn't be experienced enough to know what kind of girls I like deep-down.
Throughout my life, I have very clearly been more comfortable with the more conservatively leaning (in terms of everything not just fashion) girls
Unfortunately, I'm pretty sure that these conservative girls are also giving me quite a bit less compliance on average than the more-liberal girls who I am less attracted/drawn to... This is based on outward appearance of course, but I'm pretty sure fashion gives personality away accurately enough to be able to see patterns of who is giving me more compliance and who is giving me less
These more conservatively-dressed girls are usually married, have firm relationships, etc. I.e. Logically speaking much stronger reasons to be more stringent with giving compliance
So I'm thinking of a couple of approaches to this issue:
1. Just improve game such that it doesn't matter if all I approach are more conservatively-leaning girls. Make up for harder compliance with better game
Then once I'm better with game with more positive experience I can expand to the kinds of girls I'm less comfortable with
I'm quite sure I don't want to be taking this approach because I don't want to be trying to ruin good things for girls so much
2. Approach both kinds of girls to get as many reference points as possible regardless
Make changes to my life such that I start spending time around more liberal-leaning girls to understand them more. And then just essentially approach the liberal-looking girls just as much as the conversative-looking girls
What are some of the changes that u made to ur life to get more comfortable with approaching and seducing the type of girls that u were not so comfortable with?
Would appreciate ideas from anybody
Y
That's how I feel out in the field though I'm a virgin so I wouldn't be experienced enough to know what kind of girls I like deep-down.
Throughout my life, I have very clearly been more comfortable with the more conservatively leaning (in terms of everything not just fashion) girls
Unfortunately, I'm pretty sure that these conservative girls are also giving me quite a bit less compliance on average than the more-liberal girls who I am less attracted/drawn to... This is based on outward appearance of course, but I'm pretty sure fashion gives personality away accurately enough to be able to see patterns of who is giving me more compliance and who is giving me less
These more conservatively-dressed girls are usually married, have firm relationships, etc. I.e. Logically speaking much stronger reasons to be more stringent with giving compliance
So I'm thinking of a couple of approaches to this issue:
1. Just improve game such that it doesn't matter if all I approach are more conservatively-leaning girls. Make up for harder compliance with better game
Then once I'm better with game with more positive experience I can expand to the kinds of girls I'm less comfortable with
I'm quite sure I don't want to be taking this approach because I don't want to be trying to ruin good things for girls so much
2. Approach both kinds of girls to get as many reference points as possible regardless
Make changes to my life such that I start spending time around more liberal-leaning girls to understand them more. And then just essentially approach the liberal-looking girls just as much as the conversative-looking girls
What are some of the changes that u made to ur life to get more comfortable with approaching and seducing the type of girls that u were not so comfortable with?
Would appreciate ideas from anybody
Y