What do you consider to be a "look" from a girl? Did she really look at you?

[razir110]

Hi there!

What do you guys see as a look? Its a strange question and it may be hard to define what exactly you have to spot to understand that she actually looked at you but...

If she looks for say 2 seconds. So a quite fast look, was it legit? Or she just looked, didn't like you and looked away?

Or you have to get a 5sec+ stare to really get a look at you?

Is it true that when you get 1,2 looks, girls wont look at you so much anymore that moment on? Like they want to protect themselves?

When is it not a look, but she just looked at you with no reason, so she wasn't checking you out.

I think its very important to see if a girl looks at you before you approach.

So what is a "look" for you? How would you spot and verify one?

Cheers!

 

[pks391]

Hi there!

What do you guys see as a look? Its a strange question and it may be hard to define what exactly you have to spot to understand that she actually looked at you but...

If she looks for say 2 seconds. So a quite fast look, was it legit? Or she just looked, didn't like you and looked away?

Or you have to get a 5sec+ stare to really get a look at you?

Is it true that when you get 1,2 looks, girls wont look at you so much anymore that moment on? Like they want to protect themselves?

When is it not a look, but she just looked at you with no reason, so she wasn't checking you out.

I think its very important to see if a girl looks at you before you approach.

So what is a "look" for you? How would you spot and verify one?

Cheers!

razir,

In my experience, girls have various ways of 'looking' at you while checking you out or wanting to make you do the approach. But the very base what you can consider is that when you catch her looking at you, how does she break the eye contact?

If she looks up: She isn't interested.

If she looks at either side: Neutral Eye Contact Break- She doesn't consider you attractive but neither does she find you unattractive.

If she looks down: Bingo! She likes you and wants you to approach, bonus points if she smiles after looking down, that means she cannot make it more obvious to you that she wants you to go talk to her.

Also most girls do not generally stare at guys with the guy consciously knowing that she is staring. They have a very discrete way of scanning out a hot guy in one single look. That is why it isn't that easy to know when she is actually checking you out. Then again, these rules do not apply to all females, there are exceptions.

A woman who is committed generally does not look around a room full of people alot like she was scanning every guy there. A good way to guess if the girl is single or horny is to simply see how often do her eyes move around the room she is sitting in.

Also it is good if you do not stare back, give a short smile and go over and talk to her if she is making it obvious..don't be a creep.

 

[Frost]

When I first moved to Paris I was quite bummed because I wasn't getting checked out by women as opposed to before, or so I thought. One time I was with my cousin in a bar, and she pointed out that a certain girl was checking me out. I was like no way, I haven't even caught her glancing. And she said that she was checking me out when she wasn't in my field of vision, which got me thinking, so I decided to do a little experiment, which coincided with a big improvement of my fundamentals: I would be walking down the street, see a hot girl walking towards me who isn't looking at me, so I take out my phone or check my watch or something, and then when I get close I lift my head up and I'd most of the time catch her looking at me and then she looks away real fast. So my first point is that you might be getting checked out more often than you think.

On the other hand, as I improved my style and my fundamentals, I started noticing more girls looking at me and giving me intense eye contact at times. I have no problem holding eye contact usually but sometimes they would look for so long it even makes me uncomfortable. So my second point is improve your fundamentals and you will notice the difference.

If you're not sure where to draw the line between a girl looking at you and one who is merely glancing around, go to any place, you'll find there are women who won't even look in your direction, ones who glance fast then look away and others who give you a good juicy look to make sure you understood they're looking. So it's not about a specific time per se, it's more about how you perceive it, and soon you will get the experience to differentiate the kinds of looks you're getting.

What pks391 said is also very important, because it's a subconscious thing that people normally don't pay attention to.

 

[Average]

I honestly have no clue.

If I see a girl and I like her, I just run up to her and hope for the best. A lot of times when I think she's going to reject me, it ends up okay. I guess I learned not to trust myself with the whole scanning thing

 

[trashKENNUT]

razir110,

So what is a "look" for you? How would you spot and verify one?

Improve your fundamentals and trust me, you can't always verify all of them. I'm hyper aware. thus i am worse than you.

Rule 1: Don't Turn Straightaway
Rule 2: Don't Ruin Her Love Story
Rule 3: See Rule 1 and 2

and there's Rule 4: Smash girls head with beer bottles and tell modern women this is reality KNNNNNNNNNNEEEEEEEEEEEEE GRRRRRROOOOOOOOOWWWWW

You can't have the best of both worlds bitches, What is in it for me..

i'm joking on the smash girls head with beer bottles.

Zac