But there are assumptions in that question itself. It seems to preclude the notion that there is a wide variety of dynamics and relationships you can have with other people.
So I say to ron there are many types.
Whatever the flavor, probably a more frequent or successful variety is where a man is 'dominant' or a 'leader' in interacting. I guess I can share my thoughts about that.
So when you're meeting women, 'leadership' just means taking them through whatever interaction you want to have (and that she wants to have, too). You want to be intimate with her? How does that happen? You lead her through the journey. Make sure her emotions are on point for it. Find the easiest and best way to get her to sex. You generally need her to feel the correct things and have a place to take her. Going through those steps together is 'leadership' unlees she's taking care of all the logistics, which is not super common.
If she's your girlfriend, you're usually deciding where to take her and what to do with her. You're usually initiating for sex. You're usually defining the status of the relationship, her happiness in it, and how far it will go. One thing you might quickly learn is that when you need something done, it's usually done best when you take point on it, and use her help.
Those are just examples i can think of, and there's a wide variety.
It isn't hard to be a leader, or dominant. I bet it emerges naturally, over time, as you deal with women and their nature. Go discover what a shitty, wishy washy day you can have if you let a woman be in charge of it. That will inspire leadership in a hurry.