What is an acceptable 'Time to bed' for women who are relationship material

[EasyE]

Been reading Chase's article: If a girl has sex with you fast, is she a slut?

(https://www.girlschase.com/content/if-girl-has-sex-you-fast-she-slut#indicator)

Clearly the faster she sleeps with guys, the higher she scores on socio-sexual orientation, the more relaxed her attitude is towards casual sex, the more easy she is.. etc etc

I’ve been wondering though, most of the women I’ve slept with are nearly always within 3 dates or less. I’ve had my fair share of ONS and flings. But I’ve never really been with a girl that’s made me wait longer than 3 dates. Do they even exist? Haha.

Assuming that a guy is well versed in seduction, is dominant etc and is looking to bed them as fast as possible, how fast or slow should you expect her to give it up? On average, Is there a kind of way you might categorise:

• Time-to-bed for women who you’d consider short-term flings

Vs.

• Time-to-bed for a woman who is of a conservative background/relationship material

Taking into account that every situation is different of course, would be good to know if there's a general rule, or what your perferences are when it comes to this.

 

[Warped Mindless]

How fast I take her to bed has no bearing on what kind of relationship status I end up having with the girl.

Do we have good sexual chemistry?
Is she fun to be around?
Is she non-dramatic?
Does she have any major red flags that would prevent me from wanting to see her again?

If the above checks out and I want to add another girl, then I will.

Then how she acts after that will depend what kind of relationship we end up having.

To many guys find a girl and then tries to immediately categorize her.

“oh this girl is just a whore she’s not relationship material.”

“this girl is a religious good girl. She’s wifey material.”

If you do that you are going to be disappointed.

All women I’ve seen for long periods of time starts out as a fuck buddy only. That is essentially a probationary period for her. Her behavior, and how much I enjoy being with her (which is partly determined by her behavior), will determine if I ever attempt to make her more than just a FB.

 

[TwoNameGame]

The consensus is that you NEVER intentionally delay sex for 3 reasons.

1. Being sexy enough to lay her fast is a huge plus. Actively avoiding this is plus self-sabotage.
2. Sex is intimate meaning you form a physical connection with a side of her few or no one else formed. Not building a connection in order to strengthen a connection is backwards.
3. If a woman wants sex, you may push her away somehow. Cheating is always a risk, but it is especially if you don't satisfy her by choice, so you don't want to be indecisive or slow.

 

[TomInHo]

I don't judge women based on how fast they sleep with me

I judge them based on how they behave AFTER I sleep with them

To me there in no relationship before sex so it only makes sense for me to sleep with them as fast as possible so I can begin the real vetting process and waste less time

 

[topcat]

If a girl doesn’t sleep with me on the first date she MIGHT not like me enough.

Is she won’t sleep with me on the second meet she DEFINITELY doesn’t like me enough.

 

[Swati]

Conservative vs Liberal Girls :P

Conservative vs Liberal Girls :D

www.girlschase.tv

Within "reasonable" timing. I think I cover the differences to a decent degree.

 

[Will_V]

When I evaluate someone's actions I generally don't focus on specific things, but whether what they do fits into a coherent worldview that I can work with. The most problematic people are ones whose minds are chaotic, and whose motivations are impulsive and based on unconscious anxiety.

If a girl sleeps with me fast and I'm considering her for a relationship, what I want to see is that she did it because she wanted me and wanted to please me, and sleeping with me seemed like the best way to secure that.

 

[West_Indian_Archie]

Been reading Chase's article: If a girl has sex with you fast, is she a slut?

(https://www.girlschase.com/content/if-girl-has-sex-you-fast-she-slut#indicator)

Clearly the faster she sleeps with guys, the higher she scores on socio-sexual orientation, the more relaxed her attitude is towards casual sex, the more easy she is.. etc etc

I don't think you read this article closely.