What is your "getting laid" operation?

[Dr.X]

I think my weakness is operation.

Background: I read about strategy levels. Basically there are:
- High strategy
- Strategy
- Operation
- Tactic

High strategy I pick from Girls Chase blog: I go with lover high strategy

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www.girlschase.com

Strategy I copy straight from Girls Chase blog: targeted practice / lifestyle / high sociability

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My operation is something I make myself. I'm a beginner so it's possible that my operation is not good.

It has 3 parts:
1) Meeting girls in every situation: Inner city, suburb, beach, grocery store, beach, bus, concert, etc.
2) Going to a country with easier girls: From (1) I can adapt very quickly and get laid.
3) Even in harder country from (1) I can still get laid if I'm lucky.

3 lays in 3 years. Maybe this year I'll not get laid.

The upside is I get laid sometimes.
The downside is no specialization which means not consistently getting laid and not getting laid with higher quality girls.

I'm interested in hearing your "getting laid" operation.
Note: I'm open to articles / book / product recommendation.

 

[immy3482]

Mine is pretty damn advanced at this point - I've had a few years of practice. So this may not be right for everybody.

I'm super into BDSM, so I make it really clear that's my intention. I have BDSM pics in my Tinder profile, my bio mentions BDSM, and my message template is:
Me: Hey, you're sexy. I'm [REDACTED]. I'm looking for something very specific on here.
[She'll say "What are you looking for?"]
Have experience with being submissive/BDSM, or is it something you'd like to explore?

If she says yes, I grab her number, then organise a meetup. I meet her in public close to my apartment, walk her straight back to my apartment, and have BDSM sex.

The pics I'm using on my Tinder are here: [REDACTED]

The upside is I get laid with very little effort, I get to have kinky sex, and plenty of it.

Downsides: It took me a LOT of years of self-improvement to get here. It took me a hell of a long time to get good Tinder pics too. I'm really happy with my sex life right now, but god dammit, it wasn't easy to get to this point.
-[REDACTED]

 

[Dr.X]

Thank you.

I dabbled a bit in BDSM (calling girls I'm their "daddy" and pulling hair). It do takes years of self-improvement to become established in a niche like you.

I still have a lot more work to do.

 

[immy3482]

Yeah man, learning BDSM is just a matter of going one step at a time, trying a bunch of things, seeing what you like. I wrote two huge lists of random things you can experiment with:
[REDACTED]

And:
[REDACTED]

 

[Dr.X]

Just done reading the 2 articles, right now I'm not at the point of using it. Still going out and socializing.

It is very useful when having sex and especially in relationship - keeping things interesting.

 

[blazerfury]

Cold Approach in Malls and streets

 

[Shake&Bake]

It amazes how very little people commented on this post

 

[Beck Bass]

Gonna comment mine them, don't have many lays under my belt, but I'm finding way more success in recent years than before.

Back when Corona wasn't a thing, I was really into nightgame. I would go out to clubs and bars at least twice a week, and more often there was some at least cute girl that I could take home (many times I would fuck it up because of logistics, I still lived with my parents and had little to no money, I would go to clubs that were cheaper or you could get in for free if you showed up early lol).
But the operation was basically:
- Go out at night to some club/bar (many times I would go with friends, but going solo was better to get laid);
- Approach girls (duuuh). Early in the night I wasn't being very selective of the girls I was approaching, in fact, I would go talk to guys that seemed cool and open as well, making friends in club, specially if you're going out solo, is a great, easy way to warm up, not to mention you get better social skills and maybe some cool friends (tbh, most dudes I met in clubs were douches, but whatever, they served as an easy way to warm up my social skills).
So basically I would just try to get some socializing going. If you go out with your friends it's still important to talk to other people, so they don't feel too dependant on you and create this needy vibe that's just bad to get girls (socializing with strangers is always different as well, even though talking with your friends isn't as bad as not talking to anyone at all).
I would often drink a beer or two (or maybe some light drink) but try to keep the alcohol to a minimum, so my game was sharp.
As I was socializing and moving around the club/bar, I would search for what I call "gold in the mine", the most beautiful women there or the hottest girls that clearly wanna have some fun that night. As I already talked with a bunch of people and girls, I would be ready to strike on the right moment and make a smooth (not perfect, but good enough) approach (sometimes making out with other cute-ish girls before would help, but dunno, sometimes it can just backfire as the girl can get autoreject if she was into you and saw you with some other broad).
This could lead to some really hot and crazy pulls, and sometimes I would grab the girl's number for a date some other day, but in nightgame numbers are very unreliable, for many reasons. I did have a lot of fun though (if I had better logistics, like I do now, I can see me getting laid every other night with some cute girl. I do have sound fundamentals and years of night game though).

Since Corona, obviously clubs and bars are mostly closed, so my whole process kinda went downhill lol
It took me some time, but I got more into Tinder. Before, I thought Tinder was for low quality girls (not only on looks, but with some personality issue, the two girls I went on dates on Tinder before quarantine were kinda crazy, one ghosted me after our first date, that to me was just fine, and the other I had some mediocre sex with, but then when I joke about sex on Instagram she would offend me with some nonsense swearing, so I just blocked this nuts nuts chick).
Since December, I'm trying to use Tinder more, and I bedded two girls in the past month (one was kinda chubby, it was still fun though, the most recent was my type, beautiful, intelligent and sexy, we're still going out). Interestingly, the two weren't kinda crazy like the others I went out with before, if anything, they were quite nice/interesting (tbh, both bonded with me over some clubs and bars we used to go, so they were more on the night life like me, I guess Tinder is our way to cope with Corona lol).
I don't know if there's much process on Tinder, like, get the best photos you can, try to write a bio that doesn't suck (it seems my better one so far was leaving it blank lol, sprezzatura, bwoiis) and hope for the best. Then proceed as if you got a girls number, except you didn't really approach her irl, so she has no idea who you really are, and you have no idea who she's as well (the beautiful girl I matched looked just "ok" on her photos, while the chubby girl I though was hotter, filters, angles and stuff like that make photos completely unreliable as far as judging how hot a girl is).
When I go out on dates, I try to get my room clean, but other than that, I don't have any special prep.

Another thing I forgot to mention is that I have a bit of a crazy Instagram profile with a highlight with a photo of me kisising a hot blondie in a club, my BSDM test result, some suggestive story about using protection on Carnival with my XL condoms in the background and stuff like that lol, I think it helps quite a bit when I move girls from Tinder to Instagram, unless I fuck it up big time on my texting (which can happen in both, but whatever)

 

[West_Indian_Archie]

It amazes how very little people commented on this post

This post is an example of DAFS.

 

[Skjöldr]

It amazes how very little people commented on this post

Let's start a good vibes thread... Whats your style of game?

With all the craziness going on out there I thought let me start a positive thread where everyone shares their style of game. Curious to see what is working for people out there in 2020 as well as paint a cool mosaic of all the different ways to be successful. Copy & Paste what I've added in...

www.skilledseducer.com

 

[Fuck This]

This post is an example of DAFS.

"Dumb As Fuck Shitposting?"

To answer the OP

1) Be the best you you can be. Go after what is important to you because you want it whether it is career, sport, skill, intellect, or enlightenment. Not because the cool people do it. Neediness and Poseur vibe dries up pussy faster than anything. Self assured confidence is more attractive than any article of clothing.
2) Learn to Identify DTF women
3) Never say 'whoa' in a horse race, but be willing to walk away.

 

[Shake&Bake]

"Dumb As Fuck Shitposting?"

To answer the OP

1) Be the best you you can be. Go after what is important to you because you want it whether it is career, sport, skill, intellect, or enlightenment. Not because the cool people do it. Neediness and Poseur vibe dries up pussy faster than anything. Self assured confidence is more attractive than any article of clothing.
2) Learn to Identify DTF women
3) Never say 'whoa' in a horse race, but be willing to walk away.

I dont think that's enough for beginners

 

[Fuck This]

I dont think that's enough for beginners

When will you guys learn there is no frigging script?

OK I'll add...Learn Social Skills beyond just seduction. It is a lot more fun to enjoy a night out if you aren't just concerned with meeting women .

We all were beginners once. Experience is a great teacher. Unless you have a level of autism that requires a structured lesson in every aspect ..

 

[Shake&Bake]

When will you guys learn there is no frigging script?

OK I'll add...Learn Social Skills beyond just seduction. It is a lot more fun to enjoy a night out if you aren't just concerned with meeting women .

We all were beginners once. Experience is a great teacher. Unless you have a level of autism that requires a structured lesson in every aspect ..

So I guess I might as well lock myself in the closet till I'm rich and fit