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Hi guys,
I have been thinking recently about my lack of solid plan during day game. I realised that it happens to me often during instadate that I don't know what is the best course of action to lead her after the instadate. Today, while infield, I realised that this hesitation stems from the fact that I have multiple goals. Sometimes my goal is to find a quick lay with some sexual type which stimulates me sexually at the moment, sometimes I approach high caliber girls who I believe I could make my girlfriend. It's pretty obvious that these two goals are contradictory to each other, and I often give incongruent vibe, which leads to failure either way.
I believe that different type of game or more specifically environment is better suited for different goals. For example online and night game are better to get laid while day game and social game is better suited for relationship type of game. As a matter of fact I had success getting laid from day game and I'm confident I could do it again, but I realized that I can have much better success if I clarify my goal and focus.
Having a sole focus will influence my screening, vibe and a plan.
I wonder how you guys see day game. What is your goal of doing it?
I have been thinking recently about my lack of solid plan during day game. I realised that it happens to me often during instadate that I don't know what is the best course of action to lead her after the instadate. Today, while infield, I realised that this hesitation stems from the fact that I have multiple goals. Sometimes my goal is to find a quick lay with some sexual type which stimulates me sexually at the moment, sometimes I approach high caliber girls who I believe I could make my girlfriend. It's pretty obvious that these two goals are contradictory to each other, and I often give incongruent vibe, which leads to failure either way.
I believe that different type of game or more specifically environment is better suited for different goals. For example online and night game are better to get laid while day game and social game is better suited for relationship type of game. As a matter of fact I had success getting laid from day game and I'm confident I could do it again, but I realized that I can have much better success if I clarify my goal and focus.
Having a sole focus will influence my screening, vibe and a plan.
I wonder how you guys see day game. What is your goal of doing it?
