What is your mission/ focus?

[Paulie Walnuts]

I'm in Real Estate so whether it's day or night game I'm going out to run I try to say it's "networking" lol. Tbh I really AM just going out to go try and pickup girls numbers, but I do talk to a lot of guys (trying to build up social momentum and get over approach anxiety) as well, so I say a networking aspect is my "mission".

If you're talking long term goals? I try to focus on my career, school and going to the gym every night I'm not out playing pickup. That helps a bit with not making women a priority. I read somewhere here there was a chap who saw that he was seeking validation from women (I.E. if he didn't have a new one to replace the old one he felt lonely), that's EXACTLY what I was doing! Then I'd get needy, desperate, not follow the code of text game and chasing vs. pursuing. Now that I'm focused on other things, it's a bit easier .

 

[Lover]

A similar question was asked few months back, and I already did answer it.

I will combine what I wrote back then + add the new thoughts that have popped up since then

I want to be the best in sports. In short term this means becoming the best taekwondo athlete possible. In long term this means becoming the best future instructor in taekwondo, the gym and sports psychology (inner game for advanced athletes in particular). I could possibly lecture in universities and high schools if I want to. I could also become an instructor for lazy kids who sit in front of their iPhone/smartphone/[insert random device here] all day long.

Why sport? Because I have always enjoyed being fit and exercise. But I also learned so much from taekwondo myself that was handy for me during elementary school and high school - especially doing your best. Many children and youngsters are spoiled these days. I don't know how it is in the States specifically, but in my country, a wellfare state where you go to school for free and also get paid in the process, many children don't know what hard work is like. I don't know if I'll stay here forever, but if I do, I might as well use whatever weakness this society has to my advantage.