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At home on Sunday drinking wine and working on a freelance project -- a thing about narcissistic men -- and I look at my phone. A guy I'd met outside a coffee shop the other day had texted me an hour previously saying that my "presence has been requested at <some bar>." I'm curious, so I give him a call and a girl I met briefly at a party in September is on the line. We chat and she asks me to come out. I say sure, but we should meet at the bar next door since I don't like the bar they were at that much.
Go out and run into the girl outside the other bar so we talk then go next door. She's fun but a bit distant and worried about where our mutual friend is, so she calls him and he doesn't answer. Eventually he comes over and only exchanges a bit of small talk with me and is rather cold, which I only subconsciously am aware of at this time -- being more focused on helping everyone have a better time from wherever they are at. After a bit the girl goes in the back and he seems to relax a bit and I jokingly ask him if he is trying to sleep with her (thinking that of course he wouldn't or else why on earth would he invite me out) and he says no. So I'm like "alright, you're acting weird dude. What's up?" And he says "nothing" so we go in the back and hang with the girl some more. She is clearly getting bored and mentions going home, so I say we should venue change and go somewhere more lively. We are walking and run into other people and they say they'll come with us. But when we are going they break off with another group of people and it ends up just me and the girl at the next venue. We have a drink and she warms up to me greatly and we are getting pretty physically intimate. We have a great time and she is telling me she wants me which means I need to move it along. She gets a text from my friend which she shows me -- apparently he went home and he wanted her to come by when she was done. This is the first time I realized that he was actually trying to get with this girl! He was annoyed at me for coming and it was she who invited me, not him. Poor guy, I think. I jokingly tell her she should go sleep with him and she laughs and says that they made out once but he was passionless so she won't, even though he is cool. She wanted him as a friend now...
Here's a fun exchange I just remembered:
Her: How old are you?
Me: I don't know, how old are you?
Her: I'm 29.
Me: 29! Ugh, you're old enough to be my mom
<she hits me playfully>
Me: But really, when do you think your business will finally be ready to launch?
Her: I'm still trying to work out...
...
Some guys at the bar gave us free tickets to a comedy show for the next day and we decided that we'd go. She keeps telling me I'm turning her on so I get her out of there fast and have her walk me to my bike. I try and get her to walk me home but she wants to get some food first, so we walk by a food truck. She is a bit nervous and I see she is cooling down fast so I start making out with her, but I can tell she has decided to not come home with me this night already so I don't push anymore and leave before she does-- saying I have to get up early. We confirm that we'll be going to the show today and part ways.
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I'm guessing that there will be a good bit of resistance tonight (if she doesn't flake) and that I'll need to think outside the box to get her home with me. I'll let y'all know what happens
Oskar
Go out and run into the girl outside the other bar so we talk then go next door. She's fun but a bit distant and worried about where our mutual friend is, so she calls him and he doesn't answer. Eventually he comes over and only exchanges a bit of small talk with me and is rather cold, which I only subconsciously am aware of at this time -- being more focused on helping everyone have a better time from wherever they are at. After a bit the girl goes in the back and he seems to relax a bit and I jokingly ask him if he is trying to sleep with her (thinking that of course he wouldn't or else why on earth would he invite me out) and he says no. So I'm like "alright, you're acting weird dude. What's up?" And he says "nothing" so we go in the back and hang with the girl some more. She is clearly getting bored and mentions going home, so I say we should venue change and go somewhere more lively. We are walking and run into other people and they say they'll come with us. But when we are going they break off with another group of people and it ends up just me and the girl at the next venue. We have a drink and she warms up to me greatly and we are getting pretty physically intimate. We have a great time and she is telling me she wants me which means I need to move it along. She gets a text from my friend which she shows me -- apparently he went home and he wanted her to come by when she was done. This is the first time I realized that he was actually trying to get with this girl! He was annoyed at me for coming and it was she who invited me, not him. Poor guy, I think. I jokingly tell her she should go sleep with him and she laughs and says that they made out once but he was passionless so she won't, even though he is cool. She wanted him as a friend now...
Here's a fun exchange I just remembered:
Her: How old are you?
Me: I don't know, how old are you?
Her: I'm 29.
Me: 29! Ugh, you're old enough to be my mom
<she hits me playfully>
Me: But really, when do you think your business will finally be ready to launch?
Her: I'm still trying to work out...
...
Some guys at the bar gave us free tickets to a comedy show for the next day and we decided that we'd go. She keeps telling me I'm turning her on so I get her out of there fast and have her walk me to my bike. I try and get her to walk me home but she wants to get some food first, so we walk by a food truck. She is a bit nervous and I see she is cooling down fast so I start making out with her, but I can tell she has decided to not come home with me this night already so I don't push anymore and leave before she does-- saying I have to get up early. We confirm that we'll be going to the show today and part ways.
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I'm guessing that there will be a good bit of resistance tonight (if she doesn't flake) and that I'll need to think outside the box to get her home with me. I'll let y'all know what happens
Oskar
