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newusernoflame

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I met this girl via an app whilst traveling last week and I can't stop thinking about how I probably would have fucked her if I didn't make mistakes along the way. Posting this here to solicit advice on what you pros would have done instead.

I posted a meetup request and she responded. I was already having a meal with another girl which I made sure to highlight so as to subtly convey preselection. She came over and brought another guy who wanted to hang with her, probably as some sort of power play. I didn't mind because this guy was a complete noob at this. I was in control of the conversation the entire time. I was also playful with the girl I was with before to sort of make her compete for attention. Turns out both girls actually met the night before at the club but that's a story for another time. First girl seems to suggest we had a fun time the night before, I figure out this further validates preselection so I just play along. After a while I switch my attention to the new girl who was significantly more attractive than the first. I've been deep diving her for some time now. First girl excuses herself to go meet some friends and asks second girl to take good care of me. There's still another guy here with us. I made sure I kept shutting down all the guy's questions and he was so frustrated he excused himself within 10 mins. So here I am finally getting this attractive girl alone. We talk more and she shows me memes on her phone and we have a good time laughing. I suggest we move somewhere else and she agrees. We get some food before making our way to look for first girl and her friends. Halfway there I suggest we go elsewhere instead, like the fun place we saw in the FB video we saw earlier while looking at memes. She agrees and we head over. We had a great time. We shared a cab back and along the way she asked to add me on FB. Yea I know I'm supposed to add them early in the conversation so it doesn't look weird but I completely forgot about it and was the fact that she asked was awesome because I was pulling my hair out trying to find an opportunity to ask after. Before we get off I suggest we grab food after we finished showering and stuff and she agrees. We meet up and she looks absolutely stunning in her casual outfit. Not sexy clothes but cute glasses and long socks saying "I don't give a fuck". I want her real bad now. We grab food and make our way to her place and sit on the chairs outside her room. I said my female roommate invited me out for some drinks and ask her along but she says she's tired. I decided I like her much more so I cancel on the other girl. She shows me photos of her being high af. I see one with her using a dildo as a unicorn. I think I should have made a move here but the chairs were positioned in a weird angle. We ended up talking for hours before finally calling it a night. I was afraid to make a move the whole night because why else would we be sitting right outside her room but not have her invite me in? Also, she seemed to not respond to the innuendos I was inserting into the conversations although she didn't pull away from physical touch.

There's more to this story because we met up the next day but I'll continue later. In the meanwhile, I'd love to hear the scathing remarks on how I fucked up! Don't hold anything back please :)
 

foggy

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newusernoflame said:
I was afraid to make a move the whole night because why else would we be sitting right outside her room but not have her invite me in?

Here is your issue. You led her all the way to her house, but you failed to lead her into her room. Something I learned a while back is...you must STILL lead, even at her house. You can't expect her to take the initiative.

I know it feels weird, but you gotta do it. It's really easy to do as well:

You: hey, show me your room? im really curious what it looks like.

Gives her some plausible deniability. "He wanted to see my room, so I showed him and we ended up fucking. Not my fault this happened"
 

Mike&Ikes

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Just like Songbird said, you should keep trying to get to the seduction spot, that’s primarily where you could of not messed up. Must of burned pretty bad to be so close to her room and just ended up taking for hours! Another thing, (maybe just my opinion) I would of stuck to one girl instead of switching. I only say that because you missed an opportunity and I just like to keep myself focused on one girl, keeps things less convoluted for me anyways.

-Mike
 
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