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Hello, everyone.
I always find myself absolutely dumbfounded and not knowing what to do, when a girl approaches me out of blue while just hanging outside or on social media (Facebook, Instagram)? I am by no means extremely good-looking or anything, it's just that I have been consistently going to the gym for the past year, gained some muscles, and have worked on my fashion and grooming. I also have recently started posting travel pictures, physique pictures, and hang out stories with my female friends on my socials. Maybe because of these, I am getting a bit more female attention in person and on my social media. Sometimes the approaches are indirect and sometimes they are direct.
For example -
Direct/Indirect approach
Her: Hi. You look really cute. My name's xyz. / Hi, Do you know where xyz product is? (The product being right in front of us.)
Me: Thank you. You look stunning as well. I'm abc. / Oh, it's right here.
Her: Thank you.
*Awkward Pause*
Me: So, what brings you here?
Her: Gives reason why she is there. You?
Then, just bunch of things, then the conversation fizzles out and she excuses herself.
For example -
On social media
Her: Just types *Hello*
Me: Hi or Hi, Stranger
Her: Where did you go to school?
Me: XYZ. You?
Her: tells where she went to school
Then, conversation fizzles out after few back n forth texts
I know the conversations sound boring as af, but I just don't what to exactly say. Don't know if I start flirting from the beginning or remain polite. So, my questions are: how do I get of polite conversations? How do I make the small talk initially, and transition into more personal level? How do I keep the conversation going, and leading it somewhere? How do I make smooth conversation avoiding awkwardness, without the conversation getting fizzled out, or the interaction going nowhere?
Apologizes for so many questions. I just would like to know the blueprint on how to handle the conversation from her opening to me transitioning from small talk to reaching the hook point.
I always find myself absolutely dumbfounded and not knowing what to do, when a girl approaches me out of blue while just hanging outside or on social media (Facebook, Instagram)? I am by no means extremely good-looking or anything, it's just that I have been consistently going to the gym for the past year, gained some muscles, and have worked on my fashion and grooming. I also have recently started posting travel pictures, physique pictures, and hang out stories with my female friends on my socials. Maybe because of these, I am getting a bit more female attention in person and on my social media. Sometimes the approaches are indirect and sometimes they are direct.
For example -
Direct/Indirect approach
Her: Hi. You look really cute. My name's xyz. / Hi, Do you know where xyz product is? (The product being right in front of us.)
Me: Thank you. You look stunning as well. I'm abc. / Oh, it's right here.
Her: Thank you.
*Awkward Pause*
Me: So, what brings you here?
Her: Gives reason why she is there. You?
Then, just bunch of things, then the conversation fizzles out and she excuses herself.
For example -
On social media
Her: Just types *Hello*
Me: Hi or Hi, Stranger
Her: Where did you go to school?
Me: XYZ. You?
Her: tells where she went to school
Then, conversation fizzles out after few back n forth texts
I know the conversations sound boring as af, but I just don't what to exactly say. Don't know if I start flirting from the beginning or remain polite. So, my questions are: how do I get of polite conversations? How do I make the small talk initially, and transition into more personal level? How do I keep the conversation going, and leading it somewhere? How do I make smooth conversation avoiding awkwardness, without the conversation getting fizzled out, or the interaction going nowhere?
Apologizes for so many questions. I just would like to know the blueprint on how to handle the conversation from her opening to me transitioning from small talk to reaching the hook point.
