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So since I moved to the Bay Area in Mountain View. I get a lot of choosing signals from girls but I suck at acting on them. I was over reliant on online dating in Toronto, but it's harder in the Bay..
As I read articles on girls chase about how women flirt I have had strong choosing signals from girls at the gym and at work. My workplace has like 25k people.
At the gym I have had girls make strong eye contact with me or incidentally working out in close proximity or using the workout bench I just used as an excuse to talk to me. This happened 5 times.
At work I have had women state things like:
"I have an art collection and I want to show you."
"Are you not taking this bus" even though she knows I live in the opposite direction .
Ive had a women initiate a convo with me and share a company product with me and then tells me she hopes I will tell her what I do as I learn my job more in the future.
I've had a girl that was travelling start tapping me under the table as she talked about hotels or swimming at the hotel.
The problem is I don't know how to escalate this in a none obvious way because it's work. I am not sure if I should be direct which seems like a bad idea or how to subtly show a clear sign of interest that escalates to the next step.
As I read articles on girls chase about how women flirt I have had strong choosing signals from girls at the gym and at work. My workplace has like 25k people.
At the gym I have had girls make strong eye contact with me or incidentally working out in close proximity or using the workout bench I just used as an excuse to talk to me. This happened 5 times.
At work I have had women state things like:
"I have an art collection and I want to show you."
"Are you not taking this bus" even though she knows I live in the opposite direction .
Ive had a women initiate a convo with me and share a company product with me and then tells me she hopes I will tell her what I do as I learn my job more in the future.
I've had a girl that was travelling start tapping me under the table as she talked about hotels or swimming at the hotel.
The problem is I don't know how to escalate this in a none obvious way because it's work. I am not sure if I should be direct which seems like a bad idea or how to subtly show a clear sign of interest that escalates to the next step.
