What truly separates guys who get hot girls from others that don't?

[Indian Race Troll (IRT)]

Others meaning those that don't and I genuinely ask this question as someone who has read quite a few posts on this forum, especially the "Becoming the Beast" series from Hector whose work has really grown on me.

I have read about fundamentals, game and all sorts of things but I feel as though most of the guys I see do not have that. A lot of these guys are not handsome or seem that special yet somehow they end up with hot girls but this questions has alluded me. They don't seem to have these "fundamentals" you guys speak of.

There are so many guys out there who get hot girls that don't really have it all or even much. A lot of these guys are not good looking, rich or successful leaders by any measure in society but they get hot girls yet you have plenty of successful guys with ugly wives and not getting hot girls.

It seems like a lot of people talk about getting hot girls, they write about it but very few guys out there are doing it. There is nothing really great about these guys, some of them are fucking losers but somehow they end up dating that hot girl.

Now it was clear in high school and college when status mattered but it isn't as clear in the adult world. At times I wonder if you didn't get in during high school and college whether you are fucked since so many people get married after that.

So another way to ask my question is this....

If a guy wanted to live a life where he was dating beautiful women, what particular things would he have to focus on?

 

[foggy]

I have read about fundamentals, game and all sorts of things but I feel as though most of the guys I see do not have that.

Have you talked to or otherwise interacted with these guys?

If a guy wanted to live a life where he was dating beautiful women, what particular things would he have to focus on?

Have you talked to any girls lately?

 

[radeng]

Comon peach. How many ways can you ask the same question. Also, where are your field reports?? This is not a helpful discussion to have yet again.

Radeng

 

[Mr.Rob]

Peach I think all the losers you see with hot chicks have one thing that you don't have that makes up for their lack of looks... Those guys are actually cool.

I've never read one post of yours and thought to myself "wow that Peach guy seems cool, if I ever met him in person that'd be dope".

People that are actually cool don't obsess about why other people have it better than them, their content with what they have or are working towards. Maybe start actually working towards what it is you say you want and you could become "cool" too.

-Rob

 

[OldGuy]

They are comfortable with women. When the gym classes got together for dancing, I would walk over and get the hottest woman because even the guys with girlfriends weren't comfortable enough to ask their GFs to dance until I had broken the ice (and this was before I reached puberty; I did not know what to do with a woman, but wanted the one I chose).

 

[Indian Race Troll (IRT)]

What's the point? The guys are all snobs who think I am trying to take their girls if I chat with them and the girls are unapproachable unless you have some status. I rather figure out how to get the status itself and fix the problem then, I don't see how randomly cold approaching is going to solve anything.

 

[Michal]

What's the point? The guys are all snobs who think I am trying to take their girls if I chat with them and the girls are unapproachable unless you have some status. I rather figure out how to get the status itself and fix the problem then, I don't see how randomly cold approaching is going to solve anything.

Honestly, cold approaching is your best bet because of couple of reasons. Given how you have presented yourself in past months, Preach, it comes across as if you think you are much better than these other guys, so you should have enough of an ego to just walk up to a girl and believe (or even expect) that she will be smitten by you.
Second thing is, you bypass the status thing somewhat because she has to judge that based on your fundamentals and not based on how cool you are among her friends, girlfriends, other social situations. And we all heard what a hotshot you are so you should be perceived as high status, easy.
Third thing is, you just want to fuck bitches as far as I know, you mentioned somewhere you view women just as sex toys and you dont give a shit about them as people, this way (cold approach) you get to do that in the fastest way possible because you will not lose time with befriending the group, being social, going to clubs and spending evenings on parties in hopes to pull there and fuck some girl in the bathroom.
Fourth, what you just mentioned - guys think you want to get their girls. How will they think that, if you approach the girl on the street when he is not there? Some girls will just give out numbers even when they have boyfriends because they are the type that always seeks the better. The grass is always greener on the other side for them. I had a female friend like this. Ideal for a pump and dump.

 

[Seppuku]

They are masculine, or they are sexual, or both. But they all have a winner mentality.

Food for thought.

 

[Zoro]

They try to answer this very question for themselves, then go try out what they came up with.

 

[ResentMasculinity]

action is everything for a guy, my guess is that women were the only gender in life that were meant to just let life happen to them.