Franco's response is about all you need here, and it is along the same lines of the advice that I've seen Richard (Zphix) and Chase give on the matter. Just by pure chance of meeting and sleeping with a lot of girls, you're bound to eventually run into one that has exactly what you're looking for, isn't completely insane, and understands how loving relationships are supposed to work.
Not much I can add, other than your general outlook of how relationships work:
As a man in a relationship youre required to offer money,monogamy,time,emotional support,fun,excitement and great sex. My question is what do men get out of this deal besides the advantage of reproducing.
...seems to fall
very, very short of what I'd expect from a woman. That is the average man's way of thinking, which is why women get away with it (because most men let them).
Me? I want
her to give
me everything you listed in the first sentence- and probably a lot more than that. What entitles a woman to be in a relationship with a man and not help with money, be monogamous, have time for you, provide emotional support and be exciting and great in bed to boot? In fact, the more you screen women and press them on the fact that you require these things, then all the more attracted she'll be to you, because you separate yourself from most of the other men she's ever met who are buying her things, taking her fancy places, and all of these other grandiose things that they do to try and impress her.
So, I think you should really re-evaluate how a relationship with a woman should work. You're the man in the relationship, so act like one
NJ
