Hey guys, Garrett here.
I'll quickly sum things up. I am 19, live at home in a small town, and go to a highschool sized university. My outlook on life has changed after discovering GC, and resulting from that, was an established intrinsic motivation to advance my skillset in pickup. The issue you may wonder? Keep reading.
So I have learned a lot off of the GC blog, and one of the things that stood out to me was logistics. Reason being? I don't have great logistics. If I took a girl out on a date, it's hard to find a private place to escalate. In addition to that, I live in a town where all we have is a mall and not many people are walking around on the streets like they would be in a larger city, so I'm afraid day game is a no go.
What I'm interested in knowing is, what should you do if you want to improve your game, but don't have many opportunistic resources at your disposal? Like if I brought a girl home, my parents are there, my school is small and despite discrete efforts, some people labelled me as a player (I take it as a compliment
). It's pretty frustrating once you learn all this stuff and want to test it, but the most you get with girls is a quick makeout, always having to watch if someone is going to come in the room. Ideally, when I'm 22 I'll have moved out to a larger city where I can study Psychology and actively practice game when time permits. At the same time, I still want to practice while I'm young so by the time I'm 22 I'll be decent right off the bat. Of late, I've been practicing with girls from my past, which is good practice, although a lot of valuable time that could be saved on new girls if I lived in a larger city, and who I could further escalate with.
So, do you have any suggestions on what to do if your logistics are poor? I mean, I could always take a girl to the bathroom and have sex with her, but I'm worried that someone will find out, I'll get in trouble at school, or my parents will find out (they're somewhat strict about that due to my religious background). At least when I'm older I won't have to worry about that as much, but at the same time I don't want to make excuses. It's important to be realistic and perhaps I'm being a little impatient wanting to get better at a skill within a location/timeframe that is not well-suited for pickup. Assuming that most of you guys are older than me, I'd appreciate your input on what you would do if you were placed in a similar situation!
Thanks,
Garrett
I'll quickly sum things up. I am 19, live at home in a small town, and go to a highschool sized university. My outlook on life has changed after discovering GC, and resulting from that, was an established intrinsic motivation to advance my skillset in pickup. The issue you may wonder? Keep reading.
So I have learned a lot off of the GC blog, and one of the things that stood out to me was logistics. Reason being? I don't have great logistics. If I took a girl out on a date, it's hard to find a private place to escalate. In addition to that, I live in a town where all we have is a mall and not many people are walking around on the streets like they would be in a larger city, so I'm afraid day game is a no go.
What I'm interested in knowing is, what should you do if you want to improve your game, but don't have many opportunistic resources at your disposal? Like if I brought a girl home, my parents are there, my school is small and despite discrete efforts, some people labelled me as a player (I take it as a compliment
). It's pretty frustrating once you learn all this stuff and want to test it, but the most you get with girls is a quick makeout, always having to watch if someone is going to come in the room. Ideally, when I'm 22 I'll have moved out to a larger city where I can study Psychology and actively practice game when time permits. At the same time, I still want to practice while I'm young so by the time I'm 22 I'll be decent right off the bat. Of late, I've been practicing with girls from my past, which is good practice, although a lot of valuable time that could be saved on new girls if I lived in a larger city, and who I could further escalate with.So, do you have any suggestions on what to do if your logistics are poor? I mean, I could always take a girl to the bathroom and have sex with her, but I'm worried that someone will find out, I'll get in trouble at school, or my parents will find out (they're somewhat strict about that due to my religious background). At least when I'm older I won't have to worry about that as much, but at the same time I don't want to make excuses. It's important to be realistic and perhaps I'm being a little impatient wanting to get better at a skill within a location/timeframe that is not well-suited for pickup. Assuming that most of you guys are older than me, I'd appreciate your input on what you would do if you were placed in a similar situation!
Thanks,
Garrett
