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SmooothOperator

Space Monkey
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You might be surprised that things haven't gone the way I thought they would . I've been in college for a year and would say my game is getting better but the problem. Is I have some limiting factors which I a shackling me to the ground.

I live at home with my parents🤧 so that's automatically no logistics. I know everybody want to say move out but that's not an option at the moment. Living with them has handicapped my game as there is a xertiain killer instict that you get when you onow deep down the chick your talking to could actually be a lay.

My game is good, of say above average. I have 0 on campus lays but everytime I travel(when I have logistics) I get laid/ have a near miss.


How would you go about maximizing lays without a bed? Currently I'm thinking of going on dates and have my game "overwhelm" the girls till they invite me back to theirs because I feel weak inside suggesting to a girl we should go back to hers after the a date yk.

Please lmk how you'd run game in college if you had 0 logistics
 
the right date makes getting her back home a piece of cake

Chase

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@SmooothOperator,

Check out these threads... should be helpful to you:





We've had a lot of guys who did quite well for themselves despite living at home with parents / not being able to pull girls to their own place.

Some of the guys in those threads are examples. Another is @Teevster, who writes for Girls Chase (link); he was picking up girls while still in high school and living with his parents, unable to bring them home. Yet another was a guy I used to know who went by the handle "fireform" (he was a fire dancer)... he used to pick up girls in nightclubs and shag them in club bathrooms, benches outside the clubs, even in the grass and mud if there were no benches around.

Where there's a will, there's a way..!

Cheers,
Chase
 

KJ Francis

Cro-Magnon Man
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Just do NOT rely on the girl to invite you back like you mentioned. You will most likely still have to suggest it. Maybe try seeding it early, like if deep diving about her dog, say you'd like to meet him/her then ask another question about the dog and keep the conversation going. Then later in the date on a high point, suggest it for real.

I've had success with driving girls home and asking to use the bathroom real quick.

For online dating especially older women who can play along as if innocent, I often propose a first date at their place to chat and get to know each other. The key is do a little getting to know them online first and don't even use innuendo or any sexual frame. Because inviting yourself over straight away is itself a sexual frame.

I get told all the time that guys are extremely crude online with sex talk, like asking her favorite positions in the first few messages (either that or they are boring nice guys who chat and chat and chat), so if you are getting to know her a bit, inviting yourself over, and not being overtly sexual, you will stand out. It is a very efficient "it just happened" strategy with no time on a date. I have only tried it with women who are older and not the hottest though. Like they are tired of bad dates and here you are totally different than anything she has encountered.

I've had girls say after sex they didn't expect anything would happen. Now I typically don't believe them. I think it may be a little post-sex ASD since after all they did just have a stranger over from online and fuck right away. I have never had LMR in these situations. If they have you over the screening is done. I always do deep diving until the body language is good. Sometimes it's literally two minutes, other times an hour. I will kiss as soon as possible but fractionate to comfort building until I can tell she is past the stranger danger in her place.

Anyways, yeah maybe you can get her so horny on the date that she does the invite, but I would not make this your strategy, and even if so, her state may crash during the transition. It is a bold move to invite yourself to hers compared to yours and she may respect it. You still have to take the lead.

Public sex is also great. Just try to get as private as possible if she is inexperienced, lower self esteem, has anxiety, is super shy, etc. I am thinking of a girl who was very uncomfortable with the possibility of being seen. I drove to a different spot and it was fine. No amount of trying to get her in a good state did anything. She needed privacy to relax even a little bit, but other girls can be real adventurous.

Try asking what part of town she is coming from after she agrees to the date, then propose a place close to her without it seeming too obvious.
 
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