What's the best way to ask a girl to come home with you while on a date?

[batman12]

I've been getting a lot of dates lately... and closing is my biggest problem. Some girls I move too fast with, and others I move to slow with... regardless, what's the best way to take a girl home while on a date? I was thinking of just saying "Hey do you wanna go watch a movie?" It's worked in the past before... but I was just wondering how you guys do it?

Are there any articles that specifically deal with closing?

 

[ulrich]

“I make the perfect INSERT ALCOHOL COCKTAIL… actually I am famous for it.
Want to try one and then we call it a night?”

 

[Tr1cky]

From phone sales I learned it’s best to not “ask” for the sale. You don’t ever need to get them to agree to it. “Assume the sale”. You don’t need them to explicitly say yes, in fact that can work against you. You want to lead them all the way to the end. That does not mean being pushy or not calibrating

instead of;
“*explain/show benefits**would you like to try/buy it?”

It’s “explain/show benefits, you’re gonna love it we will send it out for you to try. Now go ahead and read your card numbers from left to right whenever you’re ready”

to translate this to game, you don’t ask at the end of the night if she wants to go to your place. You lead her there and you just happen to end up back at your place. This is where logistics can trump game. If you live in a downtown area walking distance to bars you start at Bar A. “Hey let’s go to this other bar down the street” walk to bar B then “hey let’s go to the next spot” and you lead her right by your place “hey I need to grab something real quick” and if you’re like my friend in his studio apartment “once I got the chick in my apartment she’s already in my bedroom”

if you don’t have those logistics you need to sharpen your game skills significantly to make her explicitly WANT to go to your place and then you can use the line @uriel recommends. Although I wouldn’t say it with excitement/trying to sell vibe. You almost want to make it so blatantly bullshit. It shows a social savvy most men don’t have. You’re asking for sex without asking for it.

so instead of “omg I make the best drinks ever you HAVE to come try just come back to my place you’re going to love them I promise!!”

its

“you like cake? Cool. I got some really good cake back at my pad. Let’s go have a slice and then I got to kick you out I have an early morning tomorrow” (use her fake excuse before she can lol) *shout out mufasa

or the most obvious bullshit of them all @Bacchus ”come back to my place I want to show you my portraits” LOL zero hate btw I love it.

 

[Kaida]

You almost want to make it so blatantly bullshit. It shows a socially savvy most men don’t have. You’re asking for sex without asking for it.

so instead of “omg I make the best drinks ever you HAVE to come try just come back to my place you’re going to love them I promise!!”

its

“you like cake? Cool. I got some really good cake back at my pad. Let’s go have a slice and then I got to kick you out I have an early morning tomorrow” (use her fake excuse before she can lol) *shout out mufasa

or the most obvious bullshit of them all @Bacchus ”come back to my place I want to show you my portraits” LOL zero hate btw I love it.

Those bullshit lines really can work.

I remember reading a story chase shared about pulling a girl with the line “I have a really nice ceiling at my place, you should come see it” lol.

 

[POB]

Golden rules of logistics:
- always have them close to your place on your dates when you want sex to happen;
- always have your place somewhat clean (especially bathroom, 99% of the time women use the bathroom before sex);

After that, anything serves as an excuse!
Like @Tr1cky said, just keep walking and talking and lead her there naturally.

The excuse is not that important as long as it does not trigger ASD
(meaning it does not involve anything related to sex).

One time I said: "Look, I really need to go upstairs and use the bathroom...almost pissing myself"
She said: "Oh, you live here? Sure, let's go"

Other time: "Look, I left my clothes in the washing machine and need to go upstairs to hang them...I'd hate for them to smell bad when I come back. Care to join me?"
Her: "Sure, why not?"

 

[DonGately]

Indirect is great when it works 'Do you want to see my paintings?' goes back several decades, but given that you should have sexualized the convo by now I'll always go with, 'Let's go somewhere more private where we can get to know each other better.'
It's works great because it's very obvious towards intent, but you're not throwing the word 'sex' in her face in a bar either where ears might be listening. I've only had, iirc, 2 girls ever pull ASD on me the past 8+years with this technique.

Once on a 2nd date, I told this 19yr sorority girl 'Let's go somewhere very private and fun,' and she hopped in my car and after about 10 minutes of driving she looked at me and said, 'We're going to your place, aren't we?'
I think she's still the best blowjob giver I've ever had, we banged for months.

Rule #1: Logistics is key. If you're not ending the night near your apt or hotel or etc, you're doing it wrong.

As myself and Tricky and many others have said, you should be leading the interaction the whole time from bar to bowling alley to bar to etc to back to your pad. You really should know her reaction 98% of the time before she enters your building/house/hotel.