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I hate to be asking this because I think online dating is a scourge on humanity that’s creating a generation of insecure men… but I’m in a small city for now where the volume just isn’t there for day game, and the night life is trash. I’m getting a lot of matches on the apps though, and I’m very busy with other stuff so it looks like this is the only way I’m going to get my dick wet.
I’m basically a noob at this though, so I need some tips. What’s your best formula for getting dates from the apps? For texting in general, I mostly follow the ping -> banter -> soft close -> hard close system explained by @Skills, which works pretty reliably for girls I met IRL, but it’s proving more difficult with girls from apps because of so much lower investment on their end. It seems like you really need to say something unique to grab their attention or they’ll just not respond (presumably because they're overwhelmed with choice and there isn't the personal context like with a girl you met from day game or night game).
Also, what do you talk about with girls who have boring ass photos but are super hot? I feel like girls probably get bombarded with typical questions like “what are you studying”, “what do you like to do for fun”, “what are you in town for”. What’s a good way to stand out and break the pattern?
I’m basically a noob at this though, so I need some tips. What’s your best formula for getting dates from the apps? For texting in general, I mostly follow the ping -> banter -> soft close -> hard close system explained by @Skills, which works pretty reliably for girls I met IRL, but it’s proving more difficult with girls from apps because of so much lower investment on their end. It seems like you really need to say something unique to grab their attention or they’ll just not respond (presumably because they're overwhelmed with choice and there isn't the personal context like with a girl you met from day game or night game).
Also, what do you talk about with girls who have boring ass photos but are super hot? I feel like girls probably get bombarded with typical questions like “what are you studying”, “what do you like to do for fun”, “what are you in town for”. What’s a good way to stand out and break the pattern?
