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I’ve recently become more aware of “getting” more investment from girls rather than always giving it.
One thing that I’ve started to do is instead of me doing something mutually beneficial, I tell her to do it. For example, if i know she likes me and wants to talk, I tell her to facetime me instead of me facetiming her. If we’re far away from each other, I tell her to scoot into me instead of me moving towards her.
The problem is that almost every time, the girl always asks me why dont i just call her/move closer to her. Its always awkward when brought up and I’ve been dealing with it with just ignoring it and dropping the command nonchalantly.
What do you guys normally do when something like this happens to yall?
One thing that I’ve started to do is instead of me doing something mutually beneficial, I tell her to do it. For example, if i know she likes me and wants to talk, I tell her to facetime me instead of me facetiming her. If we’re far away from each other, I tell her to scoot into me instead of me moving towards her.
The problem is that almost every time, the girl always asks me why dont i just call her/move closer to her. Its always awkward when brought up and I’ve been dealing with it with just ignoring it and dropping the command nonchalantly.
What do you guys normally do when something like this happens to yall?