When a girl says I'm too busy is that a code for I'm polite but please take a hint?

[thats_a_penis_disgustang]

When a girl says 'I'm too busy' - is that a code for I'm polite, but please take a hint and fuck off?

In any situation, when you Day game approach them and ask after 3 minutes Deep dive when is she free for coffee, or when you're texting her and she cancels the date saying that she's way too busy?

Just in general, when the girl says that she's busy, can you confidently say that 95% of the time actually you are not attractive enough? Because I cannot imagine For the Love of me a girl who I fuck like a monster and she's in love with me ever saying that she's 'way too busy' to come over and have another amazing sex with me.

 

[Rakehell]

Just in general, when the girl says that she's busy, can you confidently say that 95% of the time actually you are not attractive enough?

Nah, there are a-lot more scenarios than purely “this person isn’t attractive enough”.

It’s a man’s way of thinking, and even a man who has options is going to pass up on girls who signal them for reasons other than attraction.

It’s more of an availability for what they think you’re offering kind of thing. They think on it and assess based on how they’re feeling, where their life is at, what else they have going on, and decide whether or not they want to take part. Sometimes the easier answer is no. Being busy isn’t necessarily a lie.

Attraction can be a reason but it isn’t the one and only. It’s actually probably one of the more uncommon reasons depending on who you are.

 

[Will_V]

When a girl says 'I'm too busy' - is that a code for I'm polite, but please take a hint and fuck off?

In any situation, when you Day game approach them and ask after 3 minutes Deep dive when is she free for coffee, or when you're texting her and she cancels the date saying that she's way too busy?

First of all, you should be seeding the date first, e.g. "I gotta go, we should grab a coffee sometime tho" and see how she responds. If you ask right off the bat when she's available for a coffee, she has to make multiple decisions, a) does she even want the coffee with you b) what is she agreeing to exactly c) when is she available etc, so it's easier just to throw up an obstacle like "I'm not sure" "I'm pretty busy" or something along those lines.

If she cancels a date over text because she's busy, without specifying why, for me that's a sign that attraction is weak or she's got serious doubts, and both of those are very hard to fix over text. It's worth taking it at face value and taking a shot at rescheduling (easy to miss context on text) but it's likely done.

Because I cannot imagine For the Love of me a girl who I fuck like a monster and she's in love with me ever saying that she's 'way too busy' to come over and have another amazing sex with me.

That's an entirely different frame, you can't equate her response 3 minutes after meeting you with her response to the same question after you've had a tumble in the sheets.