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Space Monkey
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A cute girl that I used to know a few years ago wants to see me again, and she is willing to travel for this. (We live in different countries.)
I told her I've been dating women recently, and now she wants to know all about it.
Any advice on how to reply without scaring her off?
 
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Adam101

Tool-Bearing Hominid
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Best way to go about it is to be casual. It's actually a great opportunity to position yourself in various ways as a desirable man however you don't want to come off as bragging about conquests. She probably wants to know what kind of women you've been with in the past and consequently wants to measure herself to them in some way. I'm sure you have some great stories but relay them as if it's no big deal. You dating should be just as common as brushing your teeth. Just don't share any stories or frame yourself in a way that paints you in a negative light. Use the stories to show how you're a sexy and confident man. As an example I was with a girl and the topic of what we like in potential partners came up. I proceeded to talk about not putting up with girls who starfish IE just lay there in bed and other things girls do that make my dick invert. Not only did she eat all of this up but it allowed me to introduce sex talk and convey myself as a man with options and standards without blatantly stating it. Look at it this way, you've been given the chance to brag under the radar so use it to your advantage!
 

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Space Monkey
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Thanks Adam101.
Update: I wrote a long message about what I've been up to, with a few casual remarks about my dating adventures.
Then she asked me straight away if I was single or not :)
But when I asked her the same question she didn't reply. How did I dare ask her that haha.
 

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You said that you were sleeping with other girls right after she mentioning that she'll travel to your country?
 

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Space Monkey
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No, I didn't say that and I'm not. Just told her I'm meeting women.
 
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