When every date is just at my place and about sex

[killerman]

So that's the way I play things. Every date I do (after I've slept with her the first time) I arrange for the girl to come over and we have sex, and that's it. Because I'm just looking for something casual and to have a good time. But recently I've been questioning whether this a good thing at all. So is it? What do you guys do? And what do experienced seducers do? Do you guys just get her to come over and have sex and that's it or do you do other stuff? Recently I've been getting a little bored with the just "come over and fuck" strategy and I would like to do something more interesting, like go play tennis, go to the beach and have a swim (it's getting real nice, hot and sunny here). Maybe go have a picnic in a park, go for a hike/camping. But is it advisable to do this as I'm not looking for a girlfriend or something serious? Am I contradicting myself here? I'm just a guy who wants to have fun casual experiences with women, but sex at my place is getting a little boring at times. Would be great to hear your feedback.

 

[Conquistador]

I don’t think it’s either-or. You can and should hang with an FwB, but try to avoid any behaviors like texting patterns and stuff that could set LTR frames.

 

[Derek da man]

I do a bit of both - sometimes a meal at mine with an evening in, sometimes we go out and do stuff like a walk, visit the beach, amusic festival, a show or dancing. What we do is very dependent on her and my shared interests along with the weather etc. Whatever it is there's always a sexual flirty vibe as well as more serious conversations. Overal through the relationship is casual and not clignly. We enjoy our time together but have separate lives.