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Ok so I'm watching a video on youtube called "Real Social Dynamics Top 10 Secrets In The Game" by rsdfreetour (no idea who he is, got directed/side-tracked from somewhere) and he talks about a lot of cool stuff, specifically about feeding your own momentum, and forgetting 'the want' (as I call it) to get positive responses from the girl. I love this idea, and I know EXACTLY what he means. He's just talking about enjoying yourself, and saying who cares if the girl 'rejects' you. Many times, especially as a beginner to cold approach, it can be difficult to gain positive momentum from rejection. <<<That ain't no fucking over statement. Sooooo...
I don't know if there is a topic about this yet, but I don't believe there could EVER be enough ways/mindsets to go about dealing with an interaction that went belly up. So that's what this topic is about, and ONLY that, because there are a million ways to skin a cat. There's an infinite amount of ways to justify anything, and I think that another new way of looking at an interaction with a new girl that didn't go well, would be EXTREMELY helpful for people (like me) who are having a tough time pushing forwards to keep cold approaching. I'm hoping to get only pure replies that contain only new ways to think about the 'rejection'.
Hopefully I get a lot of suggestions, and people come here for reinforcement during times of need. I will start, and please try to follow the template below. Peace and love.
Tomi
- Who cares if that girl didn't like you, she's just one girl, and there are plenty more fish in the sea.
- Just because that girl didn't like you doesn't mean you aren't desirable. Your true value is impossible to be evaluated in less than a minute.
- That one girl doesn't like you, but who's to say you would've liked her? Besides, if she was any good she would have held onto you.
I don't know if there is a topic about this yet, but I don't believe there could EVER be enough ways/mindsets to go about dealing with an interaction that went belly up. So that's what this topic is about, and ONLY that, because there are a million ways to skin a cat. There's an infinite amount of ways to justify anything, and I think that another new way of looking at an interaction with a new girl that didn't go well, would be EXTREMELY helpful for people (like me) who are having a tough time pushing forwards to keep cold approaching. I'm hoping to get only pure replies that contain only new ways to think about the 'rejection'.
Hopefully I get a lot of suggestions, and people come here for reinforcement during times of need. I will start, and please try to follow the template below. Peace and love.
Tomi
- Who cares if that girl didn't like you, she's just one girl, and there are plenty more fish in the sea.
- Just because that girl didn't like you doesn't mean you aren't desirable. Your true value is impossible to be evaluated in less than a minute.
- That one girl doesn't like you, but who's to say you would've liked her? Besides, if she was any good she would have held onto you.
