When is "not texting her" the right move? When is it the wrong move?

[Dragonetti]

Inviting an open discussion here.

Is it almost always the right move to limit texts to setting up dates, and letting her initiate more, for the purpose of building scarcity-perception and intrigue? When is it not correct?

 

[ulrich]

Is it almost always the right move to limit texts to setting up dates, and letting her initiate more, for the purpose of building scarcity-perception and intrigue?

Yes, assuming you had some rapport in person.
That way you’re leveraging the assets (good feelings, connection, etc…) that you already built.

If you haven’t met her in person yet (online game) or if you didn’t have a chance to build some connection (interaction too rushed), you will have to use texting to build it.