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Today marks the fourth day in a row that I’ve gone out and see zero girls to approach. The days of summer are gone where everybody had the time to go out and do things… The cold Minnesota air stifles their passion for life and school further locks them into their own routines, indoors, and away from the rest of the public.
I don’t think in all the time I was practicing during the summer that it was ever this scarce out there. Sure, during the summer, options weren’t always so abundant either. The pretty girls in my town seem to seldom have a reason to go out. When they’re not partying, they’re distracting themselves on their phones, or seeking emotional validation via social media… None of which require going out during the day. Those that did go out were often either with parents, which made pickup more difficult to pull off, or were dressed so mediocre that, although you knew she’d look better with those clothes off, it became impossible to give a sincere compliment. My options throughout the day were almost never exceptional, but these days, there seem to be no options... Not even in the local bar did any girls relatively close to my age ever show up. My main goal this winter was to break through a plateau that seemed to have set in previously, but when I’m out during the day, it’s as though every reasonably attractive girl had walked off the face of the earth. I do, in many ways feel like I’m better and more grounded with this than I was in the summer, but I seem to have much fewer occasions to test things out and allow failure to teach me along my way.
There are a lot of things out there that could easily help me break this learning curve. I’m eager for the day I can move out of this boring little town and go to the city where the atmosphere isn’t so stifled with a high amount of parents and a low amount of youth. I also look forward to being able to go into clubs and bars to try out night game for the first time. As for How To Make Girls Chase, I also need to wait for when I have my own credit card and can pay for it independently. I’ve got the money, and I’m more than willing to make the investment, but unless there’s a way to buy it in print, I’d first have to get it through my parents… Not sure what Confucian values have to say about seduction lol.
Anyway, the purpose of this wasn’t to complain or anything, I just wanted to ask for perspectives. For guys that are, or recently have been in my situation, how do you think of it when things seem to be going so slowly? And if any advance guys might be reading this, looking back at your trials, how did you pull your way through these dull slow spots?
Though it might not accurately portray real life situations, but if my daygame options continue to be so scarce, there’s always my speech team meets
I don’t think in all the time I was practicing during the summer that it was ever this scarce out there. Sure, during the summer, options weren’t always so abundant either. The pretty girls in my town seem to seldom have a reason to go out. When they’re not partying, they’re distracting themselves on their phones, or seeking emotional validation via social media… None of which require going out during the day. Those that did go out were often either with parents, which made pickup more difficult to pull off, or were dressed so mediocre that, although you knew she’d look better with those clothes off, it became impossible to give a sincere compliment. My options throughout the day were almost never exceptional, but these days, there seem to be no options... Not even in the local bar did any girls relatively close to my age ever show up. My main goal this winter was to break through a plateau that seemed to have set in previously, but when I’m out during the day, it’s as though every reasonably attractive girl had walked off the face of the earth. I do, in many ways feel like I’m better and more grounded with this than I was in the summer, but I seem to have much fewer occasions to test things out and allow failure to teach me along my way.
There are a lot of things out there that could easily help me break this learning curve. I’m eager for the day I can move out of this boring little town and go to the city where the atmosphere isn’t so stifled with a high amount of parents and a low amount of youth. I also look forward to being able to go into clubs and bars to try out night game for the first time. As for How To Make Girls Chase, I also need to wait for when I have my own credit card and can pay for it independently. I’ve got the money, and I’m more than willing to make the investment, but unless there’s a way to buy it in print, I’d first have to get it through my parents… Not sure what Confucian values have to say about seduction lol.
Anyway, the purpose of this wasn’t to complain or anything, I just wanted to ask for perspectives. For guys that are, or recently have been in my situation, how do you think of it when things seem to be going so slowly? And if any advance guys might be reading this, looking back at your trials, how did you pull your way through these dull slow spots?
Though it might not accurately portray real life situations, but if my daygame options continue to be so scarce, there’s always my speech team meets
