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Private party NY eve. Fourteen people for dinner w. various coming all night for later partying and celebration. Im seated deliberately across from SURFER GIRL. Named as she looks like a more nice-rounded version the surfer chick from Californiacation. A good eighter in my book.
So i arrive, connecting with good friends and hanging oozing, mingling w everyone, up-nods and warm acknowledging vibe. As i mingle naturally i get to know everyone in a relaxed acknowledging sense spending some time w each then moving on.
I deliberately engage SURFER GIRL spot on for a proper meet saying hi, having an earnest, joyful vibe, then responding with a so you are the infamous SURFER girl. Your name was mentioned several time in a thread so suddenly i thought who is this SURFER GIRL.. She smiles and likes it, its on already.
Next we sit down and across the dinner we speak about many things in a four set - me and three girls who get our own sorta space from how the convos unfold. And i affirm SURFER GIRL a lot boosting her confidence, while continually providing good angles on things she mention, a sorta positive overwrite. The intimate bubble slides in - we connect across the table in this feeling of our own world almost shaping around us making a wall between us and the rest.
We start chatting broadly and effortlessly, I start out by eliciting values w her, finding out her picture of likings, what she sees and wishes for in the life-scapes around her, details of her motivations and choices.. back tracing some etc. This continues along the talk as my centre path, while the list of topics floating across SOTS and SEXTALK w. her and her friend go back and forth through:
- Flirt cultures - general talking about flirting and how it differs from culture to culture.
- My local culture of flirting, how mystique it seems to most foreigners and what its about. I speak of the difference between flirts where sexual tension is more what drives the flirts, and more intimate forms that are more what people consider flirting. So contrasting between the two. and describing sexual tension as well as intimacy.
- Spontaneousness and how you without expectations by being in the moment can sometimes experience.. one moment... leading to the next by itself as if.. an energy takes you there...
- I outline how girls from different cultures engage in cock sucking how their motivation born out of their cultural background creates better and better feelings to sex from her pleasuring me, to her doing it, cause she likes it wild sexual girl type, to a place where we become one where she enjoys my pleasure and the connection of that sort of chemistry. ..sliding it in between your lips, sucking the fulness of it, feeling the warm pulsating head inside... Inspired by @Teevs mentioning it sometime in a convo.
- We spoke of Guilty Pleasures - mine is warm baths and indulging in it which i describe in detail, sliding down naked into the warm waters, letting it fully cover every part of you body, how you feel as the warmth encompass youre entire being and how you just indulge.. fully.. letting the warmth sweep everything away allowing you to just surrender into it.. to that voice in your head saying this IS for you...
- SURFER GIRL was in a place of reinitiating dating and doing so across countries so i lead us into talking about local love stories meeting in towns never leaving the hotel etc.
- I deliver the Eight orgasms routine credit @Teevster - Entrance to it from an ive always been envious of girls when it comes to sexual pleasure... girls: literally saying why in a chorus.. i did it with a three set here. then cause you guys are literally build for pleasure.. girls can have eight different types of orgasms where guys can just have three... following one of Teevs ways to introduce it.
- And many fun normal type banters.
- various other topics of interest and fun, especially eliciting values from them or asking into their worlds and doings.
- i teased SURFER GIRL w. her having to meet a local guy here that ill set her up w one for her to try it.
Still elicitation of her and her friends values and life was spread across it too with some sessions being more intense - others more fun and interesting. This is always a strong centreline for me to line things up around that shows genuine interest in her too and elicits her world out beyond all the stimulating topics above. I continually reframed perspectives to overwrite things with more positive outlooks, higher roads and angles - leading mindsets.
but also, a key starting point was that the topic of flirt cultures was the centre piece from which everything else unfolded around and returned too. And the mix of SOTS and sex talk was good.
I use quite a few techs but i literally cannot outline it as i trained it as techs and thus just shoot em when it makes sense. And needless to say i fractionated in and out, partly using pragmatics of the dinner and more normal topics while also eliciting their worlds and enjoying their company. Thing is this just flows for me now and the above topics formed by me nudging and giving points in the directions above to which the girls lashed onto easily. Too lazy atm to outline the seduction itself fully verbally. this is just to show and collect the flow of topics and how they rolled.
From there we just hang dance and have fun. Im holding back a lil as i didnt feel like making things obvious but just graced her w sexual tension doing its thing and woking it all. Shitloads of times im sure others would have moved in. i just kept a light burn letting the space work while shooting in little seductive moments here and there. Proximity, letting our lips hang closely, her longedly hovering around me and the sets were in, speaking then me away. I sense shes just waiting for the escalation. But i dont give any at all. Mind you - I have not touched her at all all night.
At two something her friend wants to leave and she comes to me on the DF saying she loved our convo and if i live alone? i answer yes and she suggest we go just her and i. I say not right now as i wanted to party more w. my friends, but that i liked the idea vibing warmly and connectively to insure she didnt go pride-harsh feeling rejected. She suggested that i just text her when im leaving.
And so i did. I was a bit surprised as i assumed i would have lost her from not going when she asked on the DF. She came over and clothes flew off vividly as she entered - the sexual chemistry so pulsating across our bodies that anything else would be impossible.
Considerations for next
- The aftermath is tricky as i didnt want to leave early. so keeping her on a plate warming without loosing her was a bit hard even if it worked. Keeping windows open.
- better lead of techs - commands could have been use better.
- the dinner i used too little second gen escalation and eye caressing of her.. i could have added a lil to make it more smooth sensual in the packaging too. Also to stimulate myself more w her.
- maybe less proximity and sexual tension usage. Especially right after.
- the hyper contained escalation was interesting. not fully clear for me, but it worked enough to keep her ready and waiting nicely. Might be SC setting where game can be a lot more slow. But need to do this more - like a ten percent burn or so. Play with intensities.
- I get hints to giving her space to engage in escalation - like sensing her gravitation and engagement level and leaving her room to do it. key in this is that it stimulates me alot. My side of the chemistry, sexual tension control, intent and verbals provide a route that activates her well. But i should investigate the balance...
Above is just a simple example of why when you know verbals all you really need to do is to get one on one w her verbally. From there its literally game over. Ive done similar things repeatedly. in social circles, or outgoing sets all i really need is to get side to side w a girl - materialising next to her - a specific form of hovering i learned from @Bacchus ' field rapports and details hes been kind to share - and then im confident its on. Girls are literally always mutually escalating on me, presumably as i contain myself some and ooze a little temptingly knowing how my appearance stimulates her and moves her places. Vibes of purposefulness and grounded presence, slow moving, being a calm breath. They even organise their friends often, the ones who are more leading setting things up fixing logistics. Just something ive noticed a lot of so i take it as a hint of me activating her well.
So i arrive, connecting with good friends and hanging oozing, mingling w everyone, up-nods and warm acknowledging vibe. As i mingle naturally i get to know everyone in a relaxed acknowledging sense spending some time w each then moving on.
I deliberately engage SURFER GIRL spot on for a proper meet saying hi, having an earnest, joyful vibe, then responding with a so you are the infamous SURFER girl. Your name was mentioned several time in a thread so suddenly i thought who is this SURFER GIRL.. She smiles and likes it, its on already.
Next we sit down and across the dinner we speak about many things in a four set - me and three girls who get our own sorta space from how the convos unfold. And i affirm SURFER GIRL a lot boosting her confidence, while continually providing good angles on things she mention, a sorta positive overwrite. The intimate bubble slides in - we connect across the table in this feeling of our own world almost shaping around us making a wall between us and the rest.
We start chatting broadly and effortlessly, I start out by eliciting values w her, finding out her picture of likings, what she sees and wishes for in the life-scapes around her, details of her motivations and choices.. back tracing some etc. This continues along the talk as my centre path, while the list of topics floating across SOTS and SEXTALK w. her and her friend go back and forth through:
- Flirt cultures - general talking about flirting and how it differs from culture to culture.
- My local culture of flirting, how mystique it seems to most foreigners and what its about. I speak of the difference between flirts where sexual tension is more what drives the flirts, and more intimate forms that are more what people consider flirting. So contrasting between the two. and describing sexual tension as well as intimacy.
- Spontaneousness and how you without expectations by being in the moment can sometimes experience.. one moment... leading to the next by itself as if.. an energy takes you there...
- I outline how girls from different cultures engage in cock sucking how their motivation born out of their cultural background creates better and better feelings to sex from her pleasuring me, to her doing it, cause she likes it wild sexual girl type, to a place where we become one where she enjoys my pleasure and the connection of that sort of chemistry. ..sliding it in between your lips, sucking the fulness of it, feeling the warm pulsating head inside... Inspired by @Teevs mentioning it sometime in a convo.
- We spoke of Guilty Pleasures - mine is warm baths and indulging in it which i describe in detail, sliding down naked into the warm waters, letting it fully cover every part of you body, how you feel as the warmth encompass youre entire being and how you just indulge.. fully.. letting the warmth sweep everything away allowing you to just surrender into it.. to that voice in your head saying this IS for you...
- SURFER GIRL was in a place of reinitiating dating and doing so across countries so i lead us into talking about local love stories meeting in towns never leaving the hotel etc.
- I deliver the Eight orgasms routine credit @Teevster - Entrance to it from an ive always been envious of girls when it comes to sexual pleasure... girls: literally saying why in a chorus.. i did it with a three set here. then cause you guys are literally build for pleasure.. girls can have eight different types of orgasms where guys can just have three... following one of Teevs ways to introduce it.
- And many fun normal type banters.
- various other topics of interest and fun, especially eliciting values from them or asking into their worlds and doings.
- i teased SURFER GIRL w. her having to meet a local guy here that ill set her up w one for her to try it.
Still elicitation of her and her friends values and life was spread across it too with some sessions being more intense - others more fun and interesting. This is always a strong centreline for me to line things up around that shows genuine interest in her too and elicits her world out beyond all the stimulating topics above. I continually reframed perspectives to overwrite things with more positive outlooks, higher roads and angles - leading mindsets.
but also, a key starting point was that the topic of flirt cultures was the centre piece from which everything else unfolded around and returned too. And the mix of SOTS and sex talk was good.
I use quite a few techs but i literally cannot outline it as i trained it as techs and thus just shoot em when it makes sense. And needless to say i fractionated in and out, partly using pragmatics of the dinner and more normal topics while also eliciting their worlds and enjoying their company. Thing is this just flows for me now and the above topics formed by me nudging and giving points in the directions above to which the girls lashed onto easily. Too lazy atm to outline the seduction itself fully verbally. this is just to show and collect the flow of topics and how they rolled.
From there we just hang dance and have fun. Im holding back a lil as i didnt feel like making things obvious but just graced her w sexual tension doing its thing and woking it all. Shitloads of times im sure others would have moved in. i just kept a light burn letting the space work while shooting in little seductive moments here and there. Proximity, letting our lips hang closely, her longedly hovering around me and the sets were in, speaking then me away. I sense shes just waiting for the escalation. But i dont give any at all. Mind you - I have not touched her at all all night.
At two something her friend wants to leave and she comes to me on the DF saying she loved our convo and if i live alone? i answer yes and she suggest we go just her and i. I say not right now as i wanted to party more w. my friends, but that i liked the idea vibing warmly and connectively to insure she didnt go pride-harsh feeling rejected. She suggested that i just text her when im leaving.
And so i did. I was a bit surprised as i assumed i would have lost her from not going when she asked on the DF. She came over and clothes flew off vividly as she entered - the sexual chemistry so pulsating across our bodies that anything else would be impossible.
Considerations for next
- The aftermath is tricky as i didnt want to leave early. so keeping her on a plate warming without loosing her was a bit hard even if it worked. Keeping windows open.
- better lead of techs - commands could have been use better.
- the dinner i used too little second gen escalation and eye caressing of her.. i could have added a lil to make it more smooth sensual in the packaging too. Also to stimulate myself more w her.
- maybe less proximity and sexual tension usage. Especially right after.
- the hyper contained escalation was interesting. not fully clear for me, but it worked enough to keep her ready and waiting nicely. Might be SC setting where game can be a lot more slow. But need to do this more - like a ten percent burn or so. Play with intensities.
- I get hints to giving her space to engage in escalation - like sensing her gravitation and engagement level and leaving her room to do it. key in this is that it stimulates me alot. My side of the chemistry, sexual tension control, intent and verbals provide a route that activates her well. But i should investigate the balance...
Above is just a simple example of why when you know verbals all you really need to do is to get one on one w her verbally. From there its literally game over. Ive done similar things repeatedly. in social circles, or outgoing sets all i really need is to get side to side w a girl - materialising next to her - a specific form of hovering i learned from @Bacchus ' field rapports and details hes been kind to share - and then im confident its on. Girls are literally always mutually escalating on me, presumably as i contain myself some and ooze a little temptingly knowing how my appearance stimulates her and moves her places. Vibes of purposefulness and grounded presence, slow moving, being a calm breath. They even organise their friends often, the ones who are more leading setting things up fixing logistics. Just something ive noticed a lot of so i take it as a hint of me activating her well.
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