When to just leave it alone?

[Start_ed_young]

Recently some of the girls in my grade just realized how much of a sexy badass I am, and there are 2-4 girls crushing on me pretty hard. Well, 2-4 that I know and are decent looking. Here’s the thing, the main girl who is crazy about me is like... crazy oneitis convinces herself she is in love with me even though she’s barely talked to me. She is in my social circle and is friends with all the girls whom I would potential smash.

The girl is popular, kinda cute (not “hot”), and I guess I’m kinda into her. She should be very easy to get with since the chance is already presented to me, but she doesn’t know I know yet I don’t think. How do I go about getting with her, even if sex is not the goal.

She is not an end goal, merely an obstacle in the way of her friends, but not like... in a bad way. Her friends would never do anything with me knowing how crazy for me she is. To get around this i suppose I’ll just start a “relationship with her and then end on good terms where she thinks I’m great and tells her friends about me being so good. Then they’ll want a turn and I just go through her friend group. Or would it be better just to avoid her? And go for her friends who will be far more difficult?

 

[Fuck This]

My approach has been to leave those situations alone. In fact I tend to date outside my social circle. Always have.

I tell you it is weird to come into work and have your boss ask you about dancing with his wife's friend on Saturday night.....When he was nowhere near there but he heard it from his wife who heard it from her friend...but that is a 40 year old man talking...

If you want to remain free of entanglements while in high school, you gotta either remain aloof, or have ALL the girls doing platonic stuff alone with you for plausible deniability.

Now if you pursue them physically, they are going to talk, and at that point you may end up "Peeing in the Pool" but if you keep it discrete, you may find girls will fool around if they feel their reputations will remain intact. If you want public affection, you are going to get forced into a boyfriend role...

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